Did you notice that your significant other seems to be spending a lot of time texting someone else and when you try to take a peek they hide their phone?
Are you suspicious that your husband or wife might be engaging in an emotional affair?
Emotional cheating is actually pretty common and it can be difficult to spot because it doesn’t involve physical infidelity.
However, it doesn’t mean it’s any less serious and it can be just as damaging to your relationship.
Emotional cheating involves forming a deep connection with someone other than your significant other and is often done through texting or messaging on apps like Snapchat, TikTok, or even Instagram.
This way it is easy to keep up a secret relationship because you can always delete compromising messages before any else sees them.
To get a better idea about what counts as emotional cheating take a look at the examples below and see if anything applies to your partner’s behavior.
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Examples of Emotional Cheating
- Flirting
- Sending romantic messages
- Sharing intimate thoughts with someone else
- Looking at someone in a romantic way
- Fantasizing about someone else
- Exchanging suggestive photos
- Giving romantic compliments
- Keeping secrets from your partner
- Showing excessive interest in someone else’s life
- Thinking how different life would be if you were with someone else
Examples of Emotional Cheating Over Text
1. You make me feel things that I haven’t felt before.
2. I think about you more than I should.
3. I keep thinking about how amazing it would be to be with you.
4. I’m having dreams about us that feel so real.
5. You’re always on my mind, no matter what I’m doing or who I’m with.
6. You make me feel like no one else can.
7. I want to talk to you more than anyone else.
8. I want to tell you things that I wouldn’t tell anyone else.
9. I can’t stop thinking about you.
10. You make me feel special and understood in a way that nobody else does.
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11. You know me better than anyone else.
12. No one has ever made me feel the way you do.
13. Even when we can’t be together physically, it feels like you’re still right here with me!
14. I felt a spark when we talked and I can’t stop thinking about it.
15. I feel like our connection goes beyond just friends.
16. I have butterflies in my stomach when we talk like there’s something special between us.
17. Just hearing your voice makes me feel all kinds of emotions.
18. I just wish we could be together, even if it’s just for a little while.
19. Are you thinking about me as much as I’m thinking about you?
20. I wish we could talk all night like we used to when we were younger.
21. What would you do if I showed up at your place right now?
22. I just want to be with you, even if only in my thoughts.
23. I miss the way it felt when we were together
24. What are you wearing?
25. Just wanted to say that I miss you and wish I could be there with you right now.
26. Don’t know what to do, I’m so confused about my feelings
27. I’m really missing you tonight
28. I feel like I’m falling for you.
29. I want to tell you how I really feel, but I’m too scared.
30. You make me so happy when I’m with you, even though it’s only through text.
31. If we ever met in person, I’m sure we’d have an amazing time.
32. My feelings for you are stronger than anything else in my life right now.
33. I wish we could just take off and go somewhere together, just the two of us.
34. I can’t help but wonder what it would be like to be together.
35. You’re my secret escape from the real world.
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36. I can’t stop thinking about what it would be like for us to be together
37. I find myself daydreaming about you all the time.
38. I wish there was a way for us to be together without hurting anyone else.
39. I’m starting to think that maybe there’s something special between us.
40. I know I shouldn’t be feeling this way, but it feels so good when you’re around.
41. Even though we’re not together, I still feel like I’m cheating on my partner.
42. Talking to you just feels so right, even though I know it’s wrong.
43. It’s so hard to stay away from you.
44. I get butterflies whenever I think about spending time with you.
45. I just want to be with you, even if it means breaking the rules.
46. I’ve been thinking about sneaking away to be with you.
47. I don’t know how to stop myself from wanting you.
48. It’s hard for me to concentrate on anything else when you’re around.
49. I just wish we could be together without anyone knowing.
50. I’m not sure what’s going on between us, but it feels so real.
51. I’m not sure why, but I just want to be with you right now.
52. I can’t stop picturing what it would be like to be together.
53. I wish could cuddle and watch a movie
54. I keep wanting to tell you how much I care about you, even though I know I shouldn’t.
55. I just want to be with you, even if it’s so wrong.
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56. You make me feel so alive and excited like nothing else matters.
57. All I can think about is how amazing it would be if we could be together without consequence.
58. Even though it’s wrong, I keep imagining all the things we could do together.
59. I just want to be close to you, even if it’s just virtually.
60. I know I shouldn’t be feeling this way, but I can’t help it.
61. I don’t want to hurt my partner, but I can’t help how I feel about you.
62. I feel this connection to you that’s unlike anything else I’ve felt before.
63. I can feel the chemistry between us.
64. You bring out a side of me that nobody else has seen before and for some reason, it feels right with you.
65. When I’m with someone else, all I want is to be with you instead.
66. No one understands me the way you do.
67. We have such an intense connection, it’s almost scary sometimes.
68. Just hearing your name sends shivers down my spine!
69. I don’t know why, but I just feel so connected to you.
70. I wish I could be with you more than I am now.
71. When I’m with you, it makes me feel like I’m living in a dream.
72. I can’t stop thinking about the way you make me feel.
73. You make me feel so alive and so loved.
74. I can’t control my emotions whenever I think of you.
75. I sometimes wonder what life would be like if we were together.
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