Are you in the mood for some frisky time but have no idea what to text your friend with benefits?
The good news is that the entire idea of FWB is that you should be able to text him or her whenever you are in the mood without being judged.
However, adding some spice to your texts can make things much more fun and set the right mood even before your friend with benefits comes over to your house.
As you probably know “Let’s hook up?” is not the most original or seductive way to invite someone over and there are much better ways to do it.
That’s why we came up with 50 messages that you can send to your friend with benefits whenever you want to hook up and drive them crazy before they even arrive.
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Best Hook Up Messages to Text Your Friends With Benefits
1. I want to get my hands on your 🍆
2. I want you in my mouth tonight
3. I want you to grab my 🍑 and squeeze it
4. We should have some fun tonight 🍆🐱
5. Hey you, I’m 💦🐱
6. Texting is fun, but I’d rather 👅🍆
7. I’m in bed wearing nothing but a smile. Just letting you know…
8. I’m beginning to think you’re avoiding me. Have you forgotten how 🐱 feels?
9. I have to be honest, I’ve been thinking about your 🍆 all day… Want to come over?
10. Hey, are you busy later? I’m bored and want some 🍆
11. Do you want to watch some 🌽 together? I have a big screen.
12. I’m in the mood to get freaky tonight, are you?
13. What are you wearing? I’m not wearing anything just in case you are wondering…
14. I’m thinking about you, and I’m not wearing any clothes 💦🐱
15. I’m sooo 💦, I’m thinking about you, and I’m touching myself. Want to save me?
16. I’m getting SO 💦 thinking about your 🍆…
17. I’m touching myself right now. Wanna join me?
18. I’m picturing you, and it’s getting me all hot and bothered.
19. I’m already 💦 just thinking about you, and you haven’t even shown up yet.
20. Why don’t you come over and we can make each other 💦?
21. I’m free tonight… and I’m not wearing any panties.
22. What are you up to tonight? I have bad things in mind 👅🍆
23. I’m tired of studying, let’s 🍆🐱💦!
24. I’m trying to read, but I just want to 🍆🍑 you.
25. I’m home all alone tonight, you better come over.
26. I’m looking for some fun tonight, are you?
27. You are hot, I’m hot, let’s 🍆🍑
28. I’m ready for you to come over and use my body.
29. Are you in the mood for some naughty fun tonight?
30. I’m not wearing anything…Do you want a pic?
31. I’m home alone, your friends are out of town. I got a perfect idea for how tonight.
32. I wouldn’t mind if you came over to watch Netflix with me…
33. We’re both home alone on Saturday night, clearly the universe wants us to 🍆🍑💦
34. Do you have a towel? Because I just got out of the shower and I need one.
35. I’m going to have a glass of wine and a whole lot of you… tonight.
36. Are you up for a long night of 🍆🐱?
37. Are you ready for me to bend you over my desk?
38. I have a perfect idea for the evening, and it involves you and my bed.
39. Can I take you out for a ride…
40. I’ve been working on a new yoga position that I think you’ll really like it.
41. I’m going to show you a whole new world of pleasure.
42. I know exactly what I’m going to do to you tonight.
43. I can’t wait to have you underneath me.
44. I know you’ve been waiting for me.
45. I can’t wait to see you with your face in the pillow.
46. It’s your turn to be on top tonight.
47. One of my favorite fantasies involves you bent over, with your hands tied behind your back.
48. I want to spend the whole weekend between your legs.
49. You know how good it feels when I slide my fingers…
50. I know what you need tonight.
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Friends With Benefits Rules
- Don’t get emotionally or physically attached
- Don’t get jealous if your FWB is seeing someone else
- Don’t be clingy
- Don’t go over to their place unless you’re invited
- Don’t go out on dates
- Don’t expect them to text you back right away
- Be discreet
- Get tested or use protection
- Never make them do anything they are not comfortable with
- Don’t be controlling
- Don’t call or text each other too much
- Avoid staying the night at each other’s house
There is a big difference between having a friend with benefits and being in a committed relationship.
FWB relationships are definitely not for everyone and many people get hurt when they fall in love with their FWB.
That’s why it is important to have rules and boundaries with your friend with benefits to prevent any drama and heartbreaks.
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How Often Should You Text or See Your Friend with Benefits?
There is no solid rule when it comes to how often you should be texting your FWB.
However, your FWB is not your girlfriend or boyfriend so you don’t need to text them every day and it is a good idea to give each other space.
Most people in FWB relationships only text when they want to hook up which can be anywhere from once a week to once a month.
You also should be prepared that at some point your FWB might stop texting you completely when they meet someone else or get a long-term partner.
If this happens, it is better to allow him or her to move on because that’s what you initially agreed on when you decided to become friends with benefits.
FWB relationship doesn’t require any commitment and either of you can stop this relationship at any point.
Take it easy and enjoy the fun you have together but don’t expect it to continue indefinitely.
If you want to be with someone who will only date you, it is probably a good time for you to find a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Should I Text an Old Hookup?
So what if you got out of touch with your FWB because you both started seeing other people and now that time passed you wonder if you should get in touch with him or her?
In general, it is not a good idea to message your old flame unless you are both still single.
If your old hookup is actually in a relationship, nothing good will come from texting them.
They will either ignore you or they might end up cheating on their partner with you.
Ruining someone’s relationship or marriage is never a good idea and on top of that why not date other people that are single and available?
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