Do you find yourself attracted to your personal trainer?
It is easy to fall for a personal trainer because most of them are in great shape, friendly, and like to make their clients feel good.
This means a good personal trainer will make you feel relaxed and will help you to build trust which is important for your sessions to be successful.
In addition personal trainers like to compliment their clients and for someone who never had a personal trainer before it might come across as flirting.
There is also a lot of physical contact during workout sessions that can make it hard to see the line between a professional relationship and flirting.
Lastly, a lot of different good feel hormones are released during exercise that can make you feel attracted to your trainer or fitness instructor.
It is not always easy to know if he is being friendly or actually likes you.
We will share some common signs that you will notice if your personal trainer is attracted to you.
It is always a good idea to look at the big picture and only make your conclusion about your trainer’s intentions by looking at all the signs that we will discuss today.
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17 Signs Your Personal Trainer Has a Crush on You
1. He asks you about your relationships status
It is common for personal trainers to ask about their client’s hobbies, work, and interests to build rapport.
However, most personal trainers don’t ask if the client is single especially if the client is of the opposite gender.
Also, pay attention to what he says about his own relationship status.
2. He texts you after your training session
Some personal trainers like to text their clients about upcoming sessions or send reminders to do exercises discussed during the session.
However, if he texts just to see what are you up to or asks about your plans for the night, it is possible that he is interested in you.
He may also tell you about his plans and directly or indirectly hint that he is open to hanging out.
3. He touches your more than other clients
The way your personal trainer touches you can be a sign that he is into you.
However, it is challenging to be sure because most trainers like to touch their clients both to show them the proper way to perform exercises and to make a point.
If however he likes to touch you in intimate areas and it feels borderline inappropriate it might be a sign that he is into you.
4. He offers to train you for free outside of the gym
If he offers to teach you for free, it does not necessarily mean that he is into you but if he invites you to his place and you see other signs of attractions that we discussed, it is likely that he likes you.
Since many personal trainers don’t like to flirt with their clients at work, it might be easier for them to show their intentions when they work out with you somewhere else.
5. He wants to hang out
If your personal trainer wants to meet you after your training session it is a pretty obvious sign that he is into you especially if it is just two of you.
6. He stares at you
An obvious sign that your personal trainer is into you is the amount of time he spends looking at you during a session.
While it’s natural for trainers to check on their clients during the session if they keep looking at you in a way that feels almost inappropriate or do it when you are not even working out it is a strong sign that they like you.
It is also a good idea to pay attention to what exactly he is staring at.
If he is looking at your whole body it usually means he just checking your form but if he is staring at your eyes, lips, chest, or lower back, it could be a sign of attraction.
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7. He gets jealous when you workout with someone else
If your personal trainer gets jealous when another trainer works with you or talks to you, it is a pretty strong sign that he likes you.
8. He brings you gifts
If your personal trainer gives you gifts, it could be a sign that he is into you.
While most trainers might give their clients something small like a water bottle or a towel, if your personal trainer goes out of his way to buy you something more expensive, it could be an indication that he is attracted to you.
9. He compliments you
One thing is complimenting on your progress but if your personal trainer starts to compliment you on how “hot” you are or how nice you smell that is a sure sign that he finds you extremely attractive.
10. He adds you on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok
Most trainers use email or phone to communicate with their clients so if he ads you on social media it might be a sign that he’s interested in you and wants to get to know you better outside of the gym.
11. He makes an extra effort to look good
If your trainer starts to make more effort to look good during your sessions, it could be a sign that he is attracted to you.
This includes getting a new haircut, wearing cologne, and wearing more attractive outfits.
12. He stays around after a workout session
If you notice that your personal trainer stays around after a session to talk, it could be a sign that he is into you.
13. He offers you a “free” massage
If your personal trainer tells you that he can give you a massage or rub your shoulders to help you relax after a workout, it is usually a very strong sign that he is physically attracted to you.
Personal trainers don’t usually give massages or rubs and he is probably just trying to get intimate with you.
14. He sends you flirty texts
If your personal trainer sends you flirty or suggestive messages and photos, it is a clear sign that he is attracted to you. It could range from jokes or compliments to suggestive pictures.
15. You have a gut feeling
It is often said that gut feeling is never wrong. If you feel like your personal trainer is making advances toward you then it is probably true.
16. He takes photos of you
If your personal trainer offers to take pictures of you while working out, it can be a sign that he is into you.
One thing is to take photos to keep track of your progress, but if he wants to take more suggestive photos of you squatting or doing leg curls, it can be a sign that he is attracted to you especially if he takes photos on his phone and tells you that he will text them to you later.
17. He admits he has a crush on you
If your personal trainer sees that you like him, he might admit that he has a crush on you. This is not common but it happens.
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Do Personal Trainers Sleep With Clients?
Most personal trainers keep their work and personal life separate.
This means they will not date or sleep with their current client.
However, it does happen if there is the right chemistry but usually doesn’t result in anything serious.
If you feel attracted to your personal trainer and want to hook up with him in most cases it is better not to act on your emotions.
This way you will prevent awkward situations in case he turns you down while still training you.
Even if he is not your trainer anymore but you still see him every time you go to the gym it might still make things awkward so to avoid it is better to stay as friends.
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How to Date a Personal Trainer?
If you really want to date your trainer the best time to make your move is when you are not a client anymore.
This way even if he turns you down, it is not going to be too awkward between you too because you are not training with him anymore.
After your last session, you can tell him that you want to buy a coffee or drink for him when he is free.
If you end up meeting up later, see how he acts, and then decide if you want to take things further or even admit your crush.
Another option is to ask him if he is allowed to hang out with the clients after training sessions before asking him out.
To decrease the chances of getting rejected try to find out if your personal trainer is single.
If you don’t want to ask him in person, check his social media for any signs that he is dating someone.
Another option is to add him on Instagram and Facebook and start chatting to see how he reacts.
If you see that he likes chatting with you, you can try asking him out.
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How to Meet Personal Trainers the Right Way?
It is important to remember that paying for training or going to the gym is not the only way to meet personal trainers.
Many personal trainers use online dating apps to get dates. Meeting one of them online might be much easier and cheaper than paying for a training session.
You will also have much higher chances of success in getting a date because you are not their client and there is nothing that prevents them from dating you.
Conclusion
Most clients find themselves attracted to their personal trainers and this is completely natural.
However, dating a personal trainer is usually challenging because most trainers don’t go out with their clients.
In addition, they get hit by their clients all the time and it might be challenging to stand out among all their other clients.
If however, you do think that your personal trainer is attracted to you watch out for the signs that we discussed today before asking him out.
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