Do you have a steamy conversation with the guy or girl you just started seeing, and somewhere between the playful teasing and the suggestive emojis, they suddenly ask you, “Are you freaky?” or “How freaky are you?”
For many, this can be a tricky question. You might wonder about the appropriate response, or even ask yourself what exactly they mean by “freaky”.
So let’s start there. What does it mean to be freaky?
Typically, being “freaky” often refers to one’s adventurous side in the bedroom. It means a willingness to step out of the vanilla scenarios and embrace the unconventional.
However, it’s not solely about physical intimacy. It can also refer to someone who is open to trying new things in general, someone who doesn’t mind stepping out of their comfort zone and experimenting with something different, whether that’s in life or in the bedroom.
It’s perfectly okay to take your time to answer or even to choose not to answer at all if you feel that question like this is too soon or inappropriate.
But if you are comfortable with the question and just aren’t sure how to respond in a fun and flirty way, don’t worry!
Responding to this question doesn’t have to be awkward or embarrassing. There are plenty of ways to handle it with humor, intrigue, flirtation, and even some mystery.
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How to Respond to “Are You Freaky?”
1. “Only on days ending in ‘y’.”
2. “It depends on how good your persuasion skills are.”
3. “I believe in trying everything once. Twice if I like it.”
4. “I may be… why do you ask?”
5. “Why don’t we find out together?”
6. “I guess there’s only one way for you to find out.”
7. “I’m an open book with a few chapters under lock and key.”
8. “Are you asking me if I like adventures?”
9. “Depends on the company I keep.”
10. “I’m like a box of chocolates… never know what you’re going to get.”
11. “I believe in keeping some things a surprise.”
12. “I’m all about making life interesting.”
13. “That’s classified information.”
14. “Let’s just say, I don’t shy away from excitement.”
15. “Well, do you like surprises?”
16. “You’ll have to earn that answer.”
17. “What’s your definition of freaky?”
18. “I can be whatever you want me to be.”
19. “Let’s just say, I don’t stick to the norm.”
20. “Do you think you can handle it if I am?”
21. “Is that an invitation or a challenge?”
22. “Oh, the stories I could tell…”
23. “Can’t say, it’s a secret!”
24. “Depends on the moon phase.”
25. “Only to keep things interesting.”
26. “Maybe I am, maybe I’m not…”
27. “I prefer ‘adventurous’.”
28. “Let’s just say, I’m full of surprises.”
29. “‘Freaky’ is my middle name.”
30. “Not sure… should I be?”
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31. “Only if you’re lucky!”
32. “It’s more like ‘creatively unconventional!'”
33. “Yes, in all the right ways.”
34. “Depends on how much coffee I’ve had.”
35. “I might be if the stars align.”
36. “I can be as freaky as you can handle.”
37. “Freaky? I prefer ‘original’.”
38. “Wouldn’t you like to know?”
39. “I’m as freaky as your wildest dreams.”
40. “Only when it’s raining.”
41. “Let’s just say I don’t color inside the lines.”
42. “Do you want me to be?”
43. “Oh, I have my moments.”
44. “Some secrets are better left untold.”
45. “I’m only freaky if it’s with the right person.”
46. “How freaky do you want me to be?”
47. “Depends on what kind of freaky we’re talking about.”
48. “Only when the sun goes down.”
49. “Freaky enough to keep you wondering.”
50. “Freaky? I like to call it ‘exciting’.”
51. “If by freaky, you mean unforgettable, then yes!”
52. “That depends, do you like a little spice?”
53. “Only when the mood is right.”
54. “I might just surprise you.”
55. “Depends on my company.”
56. “What do you think?”
57. “Maybe… Are you scared?”
58. “Only if it involves whip cream.”
59. “Depends on my horoscope for the day…”
60. “You could say that… or you could say I’m just really fun!”
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61. “Tell me your definition of freaky first.”
62. “Only with the right partner.”
63. “I prefer ‘daring and bold’.”
64. “Let’s just say I’m not boring.”
65. “I believe in a little bit of spice in everything.”
66. “Some mysteries are better left unsolved.”
67. “I’m as freaky as you can handle.”
68. “If by freaky, you mean unforgettable, then yes.”
69. “I like to keep things interesting.”
70. “Depends on who’s asking.”
71. “That depends… are you?”
72. “Only on weekends and holidays.”
73. “Well, I do enjoy a good thrill.”
74. “There’s only one way to find out!”
75. “Let’s just say I don’t follow the crowd.”
76. “How about we explore our freaky sides together?”
77. “What do you think?”
78. “That’s for me to know and you to find out.”
79. “I’ve got a wild side”
80. “Let’s just say there’s more than meets the eye.”
81. “Depends on how much wine I’ve had.”
82. “Depends on what we’re talking about.”
83. “I’m as unpredictable as they come.”
84. “Why? Planning something fun?”
85. “Isn’t that a question for our third date?”
86. “I’m like a roller coaster, full of surprises.”
87. “I’ve been known to get wild.”
88. “I prefer ‘spontaneous.'”
89. “Let’s leave something to the imagination.”
90. “Life’s too short for boring.”
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91. “On a scale of one to ten? Why don’t you guess?”
92. “Let’s just say, I’m not afraid of the dark.”
93. “Only in the right lighting.”
94. “Depends on my mood… and the music playing.”
95. “Depends, are we talking ‘Disney freaky’ or ‘Fifty Shades freaky’?”
96. “I always enjoy trying new things!”
97. “Are we talking about dessert?”
98. “Well, aren’t you bold!”
99. “I prefer ‘unexpectedly exciting’!”
100. ” Just like a good book, there’s more beneath the cover!”
101. “That’s a Pandora’s box you’re trying to open!”
102. “I’m like a rollercoaster ride – thrilling and unexpected.”
103. “Are you brave enough to find out?”
104. “I’ve got a wild side, but I save it for special occasions.”
105. “That’s not something I discuss without dinner and a movie first!”
106. “You might be surprised.”
107. “I can neither confirm nor deny it.”
108. “Does it count if I put pineapple on my pizza?”
109. “You mean like, do I use an umbrella in the sun? Because I totally do that.”
110. “Let’s just say, my spirit animal is a unicorn.”
111. “Are you asking if I enjoy a bit of mischief now and then?”
112. “You could say that…”
113. “Are you asking because you’re freaky?”
114. “Only when the sun goes down.”
115. “That’s one secret I’m going to keep.”
116. “There’s a wild side to every innocent face.”
117. “I’ve been known to break a few norms.”
118. “What’s life without a little surprise?”
119. “I’m as freaky as they come!”
120. “You’ll need more than just one date to find out.”
121. “Depends on my mood…”
122. “Well, aren’t we all, in our own way?”
123. “Oh, absolutely!”
124. “Let’s just say life with me is never dull!”
125. “That’s top-secret information!”
126. “Who isn’t these days?”
127. “Only when the time is right!”
128. “You’ll need a higher security clearance for that information!”
129. “You’ll find out soon enough…”
130. “All signs point to yes”
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