How to Meet and Date Female Bodybuilders?

Many guys are attracted to female bodybuilders and fitness models but have no idea how to meet and date them. 

Let’s say that you were at the gym one lazy afternoon and came across a gorgeous amazon-looking woman. 

She’s got a physique like a Grecian sculpture and you know it must be love at the first sight because you still keep thinking about her long after your workout was done. 

You feel really attracted to her but at the same time too scared to approach and start a conversation that eventually could lead to her sharing her phone number with you. 

It is hard to blame you. It is not easy to approach girls in the gym but it is even tougher if she can lift more weight than you are. 

However, you need to remember that every single woman is looking for the right guy. 

Many female bodybuilders are single because guys are afraid to approach them in public which can play to your advantage. 

Because of their lifestyle, a different approach has to be used when trying to attract female bodybuilders than what you are used to when meeting any other girls. 

Female bodybuilders are not easily wooed by the typical cliche romantic gestures as portrayed in Hollywood. 

When pursuing a female bodybuilder or fitness model, you should understand that they are more disciplined in certain aspects of their lives and they take their training seriously.

However, before we tackle some of the challenges and specifics of how to approach and date female bodybuilders, let’s look at the advantage of dating one of those muscular women.

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Benefits of Dating a Female Bodybuilder or Fitness Model

1. They look good… like really good.  

It shouldn’t come as a surprise that they do actually look good given the amount of hard work they put into their training.

Female bodybuilders develop muscles you never thought were ever-present in the human body. Body fat percentage is so low that it is all just muscles.

2. They live a very healthy lifestyle. 

This is a given. It should be expected that any person with an athletic build who can maintain it usually lives a very healthy lifestyle. 

It may go to the extremes of weighing every ingredient that goes into their food. 

They also have a very active lifestyle and can influence you to get your ass up once in a while.

3. They’re confident. Female bodybuilders usually train to compete.

With the amount of judgment bodybuilders get from people in their field to the glaring stares they get in public, there’s no doubt that they have developed an entirely new level of confidence and not giving a f*ck.

4. They’re not afraid of commitment. 

There are not too many people who have more commitment than bodybuilders. 

Simply becoming one would demand them to have a strong sense of commitment to the field itself. 

They have to stick to a very strict diet, a rigorous workout routine, and excellent time management especially if they have a job on the side.

5. They’re dominant. 

Female bodybuilders often get sh*t for having a very strong dominant presence. 

However, it should be seen as an advantage because these women do not mess around. 

They know what they want and aren’t afraid to do whatever it takes to go after it.

It doesn’t just take any kind of man to woo a female bodybuilder or fitness model. 

Often, it may get really intimidating even just trying to approach one. 

So what do you have to be or what do you need to have to date a female bodybuilder?

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What’s Required to Start Dating a Female Bodybuilder? 

1. You got to have the balls. 

Most female bodybuilders will have a masculine-looking physique. 

If they’re taking steroids, they may even look like a man. 

Now you know you’re attracted to that kind of look. But do you have the balls to take the stares from the average public? 

When you’re walking with her in a mall, expect to get strange looks from people. 

Are you man enough to take it? 

You also need to accept that she may have a better-looking body than yours. 

She may even be stronger than you.

She’s no damsel in distress and so you have to be man enough to accept that the relationship dynamic is also strongly affected by this.

2. You need to be active. 

Although most female bodybuilders would prefer to date other bodybuilders, there’s no doubt that you have a chance. 

You don’t necessarily have to be a bodybuilder but you need to at least not be scared of going to the gym. 

Maybe be involved in some sort of sport that you enjoy. 

This is important because being active is not just her hobby. It’s her lifestyle. It is a priority for her and you would need to be able to share that with her.

3. You have to be understanding. 

Bodybuilding is their life passion. And with it come sacrifices that she has to make. 

That may be time spent with you. When it’s competition season, you will have to understand that her priority will be training. 

All her resources will be set for that. You will have to understand that there will be times when she cannot be with you. 

Competition may entail traveling and you will have to be open-minded about that.

4. You have to be disciplined.

Female bodybuilders love order and organization. 

They have excellent time management skills, which are required to juggle everything that’s happening in their lives. 

They’re very disciplined in their eating habits as well. 

Therefore, it is expected of you to be disciplined as well. There isn’t an “anything goes” kind of attitude when dating a female bodybuilder. 

5. You have to be supportive.

If it’s a competition season and she needs to cut back more weight and is doing a strict diet, supporting her is a must. 

You have to be a complementing force in her life and not a distraction. 

There will come days that she’s down when she doesn’t reach a goal she’s set for herself and she will need you during these days.

Dating a female bodybuilder will come with challenges that you have to mentally prepare yourself for. 

It’s a unique type of relationship you’ll have because they have a strong female dominance. 

Her priorities at times may be above yours. 

However, by learning more about her and being supportive and understanding of her passions and everything that comes with it, you will be able to grow a strong long-lasting relationship with a female bodybuilder.

Not every guy can brag about something like this.

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Where to Meet Female Bodybuilders?

Let’s take a look at some places where you can meet female bodybuilders.

1. Gyms and fitness clubs. 

When it comes to the best places to meet female bodybuilders, most guys think about gyms. 

However, the gym is not the only place where you can meet female bodybuilders. 

Oftentimes it is also not the easiest place either and many times girls will be wearing headphones in the gym which makes the approach even more challenging. 

Plus there is always judgment from other guys. 

To be successful in picking up female bodybuilders in the gym you need to become regular there and start building rapport with those girls. 

Meeting female bodybuilders in a gym is a long-term game. 

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2. Bodybuilding competitions and fitness expos 

Other obvious places where you can meet female bodybuilders are competitions and fitness conventions. 

Similarly to gyms, it is important to build some rapport and not act too desperate because most girls can feel if the guy just wants to sleep with them. 

Instead try to get to know them by asking questions about their lifestyle, hobbies, and travel plans. 

3. Instagram.

Almost every female bodybuilder and fitness model has an Instagram account and it shouldn’t be a surprise that this is one of the best places to meet them. 

As with your offline game, take it slow by following a few female bodybuilders that you find attractive and start liking and commenting on their photos.

After that, you can start asking questions in their comment section and when you see that the girl is reacting positively to your comments, it is time to take it to the next level and DM her.

DM her for a few days and only after she is comfortable talking to you ask for her number. 

The goal is to get her number because she is likely chatting with a lot of other guys on Instagram and you don’t want to become her “Instagram friend” 

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4. Online dating sites. 

The fastest way to meet female bodybuilders is online. 

Many single female bodybuilders are using online dating sites to meet guys because they don’t have time to go to clubs or bars. 

Also as we discussed many guys are afraid to approach them in public which limits their options. 

Meeting girls in gyms, fitness conventions, and even on Instagram takes time. 

On dating sites, you can message the girl right away and ask for her number after a short chat with her.

In many cases, you can even meet her on the same night.

Some of those premium dating sites charge a fee to keep away spammers and singles who are not serious about dating. 

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