Do you have a gut feeling that your girlfriend is cheating on you but have no actual proof that she is being unfaithful?
Maybe you noticed that she became more secretive about her phone, not as engaged in conversations with you, or perhaps even stopped sleeping with you.
All these signs can mean that she is cheating, but without concrete evidence, it might feel like you are stuck in a never-ending spiral of doubts and suspicions.
However, there are some subtle ways to find out if your girlfriend is sleeping with someone else.
One way to do it is to ask her questions about her exes, her feelings toward you, and her social life.
These types of questions can often catch people off guard, which may cause them to slip up and reveal the truth.
When asking the trick question that we will share with you today pay attention to your girlfriend’s responses and if you notice some of the signs below it might be time to confront her.
- She avoids eye contact
- She stutters or fumbles with her answers
- She becomes defensive and starts to blame you
- She starts to make up excuses for why she can’t answer your questions
- She tells you that she doesn’t remember what happened
- She talks about other men in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable
Remember that these questions should be asked in a calm and non-accusatory manner because your main goal is to get to the truth, not to start a fight just because you have some suspicions.
Also don’t forget to do a quick reverse email search to check if she is using online dating apps to meet other guys.
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Trick Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend to See If She’s Cheating
1. What did you do when you said you were staying late at the office?
2. Why did you delete your browsing history the other day?
3. Are you sure you don’t want to meet up with your ex for lunch?
4. Why did you hide your phone when I came into the room the other day?
5. How did you get home so quickly yesterday?
6. Have you ever been out for drinks with a co-worker without telling me?
7. Do you ever feel like you’re missing out by being with me?
8. Who were you on the phone with for so long last night?
9. Do you ever think of anyone else when we kiss?
10. Do you think it’s ok to keep secrets from your partner?
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11. Is there anyone else that you’d instead be spending your time with?
12. Who was that guy you were chatting with after work?
13. Where did you go after we had dinner the other night?
14. Do you ever feel guilty about something when you’re with me?
15. Have you been fantasizing about anyone else?
16. Are there any secrets that I don’t know about that could hurt our relationship?
17. Do any of your friends know something about you that I don’t?
18. Is there anyone else who sends you flowers?
19. Who were you texting until late last night?
20. Are you keeping any secrets from me?
21. Do you ever compare me to someone else?
22. Have you ever gone out to a club without me?
23. Do you ever worry that I’m not the right person for you?
24. Is there someone else in your life who makes you feel special?
25. When was the last time you had dinner with another guy?
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26. Do you ever think of other people when we are together?
27. Where were you when I called you last night?
28. When was the last time you went out with your friends without me?
29. Do you have any guy friends I don’t know about?
30. Have you ever flirted with someone else while we were together?
31. Do you talk to any of your exes?
32. Have you ever lied to me about where you were or what you were doing?
33. Have you ever felt like being with me was a chore?
34. How often do you think about someone else other than me?
35. How long have you been friends with that guy from work?
36. How often do you talk to your ex?
37. Is there someone else in your life who you’re interested in?
38. Do you have any social media accounts I don’t know about?
39. Why did you delete some of your text messages the other day?
40. Why did you suddenly start going to the gym every day?
41. Why does your friend keep messaging you so late at night?
42. Do you have any friends that I don’t know about?
43. Who did you have lunch with the other day?
44. Are you seeing anyone else?
45. Have you ever given your number to someone else?
46. Do you think it’s okay to flirt with someone else while in a relationship?
47. Does the name “John” ring a bell to you?
48. Do you know anyone who has feelings for you?
49. Have you ever felt like being unfaithful to me?
50. When was the last time someone else tried flirting with you?
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51. Why do you go out late so often without telling me?
52. Do you ever feel like you don’t want to be with me anymore?
53. When was the last time you hung out with your ex?
54. Have you ever done something that might make me uncomfortable if I found out?
55. Do you ever feel like your heart isn’t in this relationship anymore?
56. Why did your friends seem so distant when I was around the other day?
57. Why did you delete those messages from your phone?
58. Do you feel like something is missing in our relationship?
59. Why did you cancel our date last night?
60. Have you ever lied to me about something serious?
61. Do you ever feel like I’m not meeting all of your needs?
62. Do you feel like there’s anything missing in our relationship that you wish was different?
63. Why are you always so vague when I ask where you’ve been?
64. How often do you talk to that guy from work?
65. Why have you been so distant lately?
66. Is there something going on between you and your coworker that I should know about?
67. Do you think any areas of our relationship could use improvement?
68. What would make you consider ending our relationship?
69. Have you been feeling differently about me lately?
70. Have you ever been tempted to cheat on me?
71. How would you feel if I told you I found out that you have been unfaithful?
72. Do you ever worry that I’m not the one for you?
73. What would you do if someone else tried to make a move on me?
74. If I asked to borrow your phone, would there be anything on it that could break my trust in you?
75. When was the last time you had an intimate conversation with someone else?
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76. Do you ever feel that I am not enough for you?
77. Do you think it’s possible to be in love with two people at once?
78. Do you ever feel like I am not giving you enough attention?
79. Do you ever think about what it might be like to be with someone else?
80. Have you ever cheated on someone before?
81. Did you ever have feelings for someone else while we were together?
82. What would you do if you knew that I was cheating on you?
83. What would it take for you to leave me?
84. Have you ever wanted to break up with me?
85. Is there anything I do that makes you want to be with someone else?
86. Is there someone else you’d instead be spending your time with?
87. Have you ever thought about being with someone else?
88. How often do you talk to your ex?
89. Do you ever dream about anyone else?
90. Are you still in touch with any of your exes?
91. Do you ever fantasize about someone else when we’re together?
92. Has anyone ever asked you out since we’ve been together?
93. Have you ever sent a text message to someone that I would disapprove of?
94. Do you feel like our relationship has changed lately?
95. Do you miss anything about being single?
96. Do any of your friends ever negatively talk about me?
97. Have you ever had thoughts about breaking up with me?
98. Is there anything that I don’t know that I should know about your past relationships?
99. Do you ever compare me to your exes?
100. Why did you change your password the other day?
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