Do you suspect that an older attractive woman you just met wants to sleep with you but are not fully sure?
Even though mature women behave differently from younger girls, in most cases you will see clear signs if they are physically attracted to you as long as you pay attention.
Most guys are not very good at picking up signals that women send when they want to sleep with them and often end up going home alone.
To avoid being one of those clueless guys it might be helpful to know what signs you should be looking for if you want to know if the older woman you recently met wants to sleep with you.
Some of these signs are pretty obvious like for example, her inviting you over to her place late at night while other signs like her looking at your lips are more subtle.
Most older women will try to find out if you are attracted to them before making any moves.
That’s why in addition to her body language it is important to pay attention to what she is saying and the questions she is asking you when you are together.
Are you just having conversations about neutral topics like work, and weather or is she asking you more suggestive questions like for example what type of girls you like?
Now let’s take a look at some other signs that you will notice if an older woman is intimately interested in you.
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Signs An Older Woman Wants to Sleep With You
1. She Will Try to Get Closer to You
When a woman wants to sleep with you, she will often invade your personal space because she wants to be physically close to you.
Next time you see each other pay attention to how close she stands, sits, or walks around you.
If she is trying to invade your intimate space, it is pretty obvious that she is interested in you more than a friend.
Another way to get a better idea about her intentions is to move closer to her and see how she reacts.
Is she moving away or closer to you?
2. She Asks If You are In a Relationship
If the older woman is asking you about your relationship status, it is a pretty strong signal that she is interested in you and wants to find out if she has a chance.
3. She Likes to Touch You
Touching is one of the most basic and obvious signs of physical attraction.
However, some guys often ignore this sign thinking that the woman is just being friendly.
If she runs her fingers through your hair, checks your biceps, or touches your back, and says that you are really fit it is an obvious sign that she is not interested in being just friends with you.
Women, in general, don’t initiate physical contact with men they are not attracted to.
An older woman who is interested in you will touch your chest, arms, back, or will even try to rub against you.
Pay even more attention if she is touching your intimate areas like your inner thigh, even if she apologizes and makes it look like it wasn’t on purpose.
4. She Says She Likes Younger Men
If an older woman is telling you that she prefers to date younger guys, it is a clear sign that she is interested in you.
There is no reason for her to share this intimate information with you unless she wants to get more physical with you.
5. She Gives You a Lot of Compliments
A woman who’s trying to seduce you will tell you whatever she can to make you feel good.
She will tell you that you have a fit body, a nice smile, or how she loves the color of your shirt.
Pay attention to what type of compliments she gives you.
If most of the compliments have to do with the way you look, it is a sign that she is physically interested in you.
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6. She Wears Provocative Clothing
A woman who is trying to seduce you will often wear revealing clothing to get your attention.
It will often be revealing enough to make you notice her but not trashy enough to make her look like a hustler.
She might do this by wearing shirts that show her 🍒, a short skirt or tight pants to show her legs, or a dress with a low back.
7. She Shows You a Lot of Skin by “Accident”
Some older women are very good when it comes to seduction.
She might bend over in front of you or sit in such a way that you can see her 🍒.
You may even notice her looking at you from the corner of her eyes and smiling when doing that.
8. She Tries to Be Alone With You
If you are with a group of friends, she will try to break off from the group and be alone with you.
If she is working, she might try to be alone with you by asking you to come to her office.
By being alone with you it will be easier for her to relax and act more casual without being judged by anyone else.
9. She Tries to Get Your Drunk
Some older women will try to get you drunk to make you more relaxed before they make a move on you.
She might get drunk as well to make it easier for her to open up to you.
10. She Can’t Keep Her Eyes Off You
If a woman is interested in you, she will keep strong eye contact when talking to you.
You may also notice that her pupils are dilated.
11. She Touches Her Neck
If you notice that an older woman touches her neck more than usual when you are together, it might be a sign that she likes you.
Women often play with their necks when they feel anxious around the guy they find attractive and also to get his attention.
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12. She Puts Her Head on Your Shoulder
If you are sitting next to an older woman and she puts her head on your shoulder, it is another obvious sign that she is intimately interested in you.
This might be her invitation for you to make the first move and kiss her if the time is right.
13. She Stares at Your Lips
If an older woman stares at your lips, it is a clear sign that she is waiting for you to make a move.
You may even notice her licking her lips when looking directly at you.
14. She Talks to You About Physical Intimacy
Older women are often more comfortable than younger girls talking about intimate topics such as sleeping together.
They might discuss it with the guys they want to sleep with to get a better idea of what they like.
So don’t be surprised if an older woman who wants to sleep with you tells you about her intimate life and what she likes in bed.
In general, when the woman you are seeing mentions making love in her conversations it is a pretty strong sign that she is very comfortable around you and probably wants to hook up with you.
15. She Tells You She Needs to Get Laid
This is pretty much her telling you that she wants to sleep with you.
Alternatively, she may tell you how she didn’t sleep with anyone for a long time but it means pretty much the same thing.
She wants to hook up with you so don’t mess this up like some guys that think that she is just being “friendly”.
16. She Invites You Over to Her House
An older woman who wants to sleep with you might invite you over to her house to watch movies or get some drinks.
This is an obvious sign that she wants to hook up with you especially if she takes off some of her clothing when you are there or wears something very seductive.
If she starts to cuddle with you while you are watching a movie or tries to kiss you, that’s your cue to get ready for some wild action.
17. She Gives You a Long Kiss
Some women are comfortable with kissing a guy after the first date but in most cases, it will be a short kiss.
If she lingers longer or grabs your body it is a sign that she doesn’t want the night to end yet.
Don’t ruin this moment and invite her to your place to watch a movie or get drinks.
18. She Tells You to Stay Over at Her Place
If you are going to a party or a bar and she asks if you want to stay at her place, it is obvious that she is trying to get into your pants.
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How to Tell an Older Woman You Want Her?
Before you go ahead and confess your feelings, it is a good idea to find out if she feels the same way based on the sign that we discussed today.
If you can see obvious signs that she wants you, don’t be hesitant to make a move.
If you are not sure, how she feels, you can still try to make a move but be prepared that she might reject it.
In any case, you will never know how she will react until you try.
The way you tell and show her that you want her will depend on how well you know her.
If you never went out on a date with her, then the first step is to ask her out.
This way you will find out right away if she is interested in you or not.
If you have already gone out with her, the next time you meet find a good time to get closer to her and try to go for a kiss.
If you already made out with her, invite her over to watch a movie at your place then start cuddling and see how she reacts.
As you can see dating older women is pretty simple.
Unfortunately, many younger guys with a lack of dating experience try to overanalyze things and end up not doing anything.
Remember it is better to make your move and get rejected than regret not doing anything.
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Where to Meet Older Women?
There are many places where you can meet older women but the easiest one is online.
Older women online often don’t get as much attention as younger girls and that’s why it is much easier to get a date with them.
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