OnlyFans is one of the most popular platforms for creators to share their intimate or tease photos and videos and charge a fee for that.
Because of the potential to make a lot of money many girls and even guys use OnlyFans to make some extra cash.
Unfortunately sharing their intimate photos with others for a fee creates some challenges when it comes to dating. Especially for someone who is looking for a serious boyfriend or girlfriend.
Many guys end up sleeping with girls that have OnlyFans but only a few are willing to commit to something long-term.
So should you date a girl with OnlyFans?
Like many things when it comes to dating you will need to decide for yourself. However, to make it easier let’s take a look at some pros and cons when it comes to dating a girl with OnlyFans.
Advantages of Dating a Girl With OnlyFans
She is Open Minded and Likes to Have Fun
Most girls with OnlyFans are quite adventurous and are not afraid to experiment.
So if you want to date a girl that knows how to have fun don’t ignore girls with OnlyFans.
She is Making Good Money (Possibly)
Not everyone on OnlyFans is making a lot of money but if she is already Instafamous she is likely making some serious cash.
This might be an advantage if you want a woman that makes her own money and can pay for herself. This means that you don’t have to spend much money on her and she might be able to spoil you every once in a while.
Your Friends Will Be Jealous
Because many of your friends know that she is super attractive but can’t have her, they will likely be jealous that you are the one who is dating her.
Disadvantages of Dating a Girl With OnlyFans
She is Sending Her Revealing Photos and Videos to Other Guys
Not every guy can handle a woman that shares her photos and videos with random guys on the internet. Many men consider this cheating.
She Will Be Flirting With Other Guys
To keep her OnlyFans account popular she will need to interact and flirt with other guys even if the two of you are in a serious relationship because this is her job.
Your Friends and Parents Might Judge You
There are always will be people that will be against you dating a girl that shares her photos with strangers.
You Might End up on Her OnlyFans
If you are dating her it is possible that at some point you might be pressured in participating in her OnlyFans activities. This can obviously be either an advantage or a disadvantage depending on you.
Marriage and Kids Might Suffer
If you get serious, get married, and eventually have kids, having intimate pictures of their mom all over the internet might create a lot of different challenges for example judgment from other parents or bullying by other kids.
What to Do If Your Girlfriend or Wife Has an OnlyFans Account?
The pros and cons that we discussed should make it easier for you to decide if you should start dating a girl with an OnlyFans account.
However, things can get a little messier if your significant other hides from you that she has an OnlyFans account when you first start dating and only tells you when you develop feelings for her.
Some girls might feel embarrassed to tell a guy that they are on OnlyFans or afraid that he might tell the people they know.
Or maybe she decides to join it after you get together.
No matter what is your situation here are some steps that you can take if your girlfriend or wife has an OnlyFans account.
1. Find the Reason Why She is On OnlyFans
First of all, it is important for you to have a conversation about her OnlyFans account without any judgment.
Try to understand why your girlfriend wants to be on OnlyFans. Is it because she needs money, wants more attention from other guys, or is she being pressured by her friends that are already successful on OnlyFans?
Understanding the reason might help you to find some common ground with her.
2. Find a Compromise
The next step is to decide if there is a way for you two to compromise.
Can she delete her account to make you happy? Or maybe you decide that it is okay for her to keep it as long as she only shares the content you agree on or you get a chance to review the photos and videos that she is posting.
Alternatively, you can try to ask her to only share content anonymously (by hiding her face).
3. If You Can’t Reach a Compromise, It Is Time to Move On
Unfortunately, if she is not willing to stay away from OnlyFans and you can’t accept that your girlfriend is sharing her intimate photos with other dudes on the internet for money it might for the best if you go separate ways.
It is likely that you are just not compatible and staying longer in this relationship will be toxic for both of you and will only make you feel miserable.
How to Know If Someone Has an OnlyFans Account?
If you want to make sure that a girl you are dating doesn’t have an OnlyFans account, there are a few ways to do it.
First of all, check if any of her social media has links to OnlyFans. Many girls promote their OnlyFans on Instagram, TikTok, and even Tinder.
Next, you can use the OnlyFans website to search for her if you have some basic info about the girl.
Another option is to use special websites that allow you to search for people on OnlyFans. There are a few different options available such as onlysearcher.com and onlyfinder.com