It is not rare for both men and women to have more than one intimate partner at a time.
There is nothing wrong with that as long as you are being honest with all of your partners.
However, not everyone is open about it and some women and men hide the fact that they are dating more than one person at a time.
Some women are afraid to tell their dates that they are seeing someone else because of the fear of being judged while others are afraid to scare men away and prefer to keep their options open.
So how can you figure out if the girl you are interested in is seeing other men?
Or maybe you are just not comfortable with dating a woman that sleeps around because you are looking for a serious commitment?
Today we will take a look at the signs that you will often notice when a woman has multiple intimate partners.
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How To Tell If A Woman Has Multiple Partners?
1. She Openly Talks About Her Intimate Life
If a woman brags about her intimate conquests to her friends, that’s a clear sign that she is not interested in sticking with one guy and is more interested in an adrenaline rush that comes from sleeping with multiple partners.
A woman who is truly interested in a monogamous relationship wouldn’t feel the need to talk about her intimate life with others.
2. She is Always Flirting
If a woman is constantly flirting with guys, it’s probably because she likes male attention.
There is nothing wrong with being flirty and touchy-feely with guys if you are single.
However, if the woman is actually seeing someone it becomes a problem.
3. She is Always Busy Late at Night
If a woman is always unavailable late at night, there’s a good chance that she’s hanging out with other guys.
4. She Has a History of Cheating
If a woman has cheated on her past partners, it’s likely that she will do it again.
Women like that often have more than one partner and unfortunately, most of these partners are not aware that their girlfriend is not being faithful.
5. She Has Never Been in a Serious Relationship
If a woman has never been in a serious relationship, it could mean that she is not ready or not interested in one.
She is probably too busy chasing one guy after another to focus on one man.
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6. You Always See Her With a New Male Friend
Again, there’s nothing wrong with a woman having male friends.
However, if you always see her with a new guy, and she never brings the same guy around twice, then there’s a good chance she is sleeping with some of them at the same time.
7. She Has Intimate Tattoos or Piercings
If a woman has a lot of tattoos or piercings in intimate areas, it shows that she is pretty open-minded.
These types of body modifications are often seen as signs of being open-minded and willing to experiment.
Women like that often enjoy the company of more than one guy because they like the adrenaline rush that comes from sleeping with more than one partner at a time.
8. She is Always on Tinder
If a woman is always on dating apps, it means she wants to keep her options open especially if she is already seeing someone.
The same applies if she is very active on social media and always likes and comments on photos of men.
9. She Likes to Drink and Party
If a woman regularly goes out drinking and partying, it is highly likely that she is engaging in promiscuous behavior.
This type of lifestyle can be indicative of a woman who has multiple partners.
10. She is Always on Her Phone
If she’s constantly glued to her phone, there’s a good chance she’s texting and flirting with other guys.
This is especially a red flag if she is doing it while on a date with you.
You may also notice that she is very secretive about who she’s talking to and always tries to hide her phone screen from you.
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11. She Gets Intimate on a First Date
There’s no set rule that says you have to wait until the third date to sleep with someone.
However, if she’s ready to get down on the first date with you, it means she has done it before with other guys.
If a woman does not seem to have any reservations about sleeping with a new partner, it is likely that she is sleeping around.
12. She Doesn’t Care About Using Protection
If a woman isn’t bothered by the fact that you are not using protection, she is probably used to sleeping with a lot of guys and so far was pretty lucky by avoiding STIs and not getting pregnant.
Women that don’t have too many partners are usually very careful when it comes to sleeping with guys.
13. There are Rumors About Her
If there are rumors going around that she sleeps with a lot of men, then it’s likely true.
Gossip is usually based on some truth, so it’s important to listen to what people are saying.
If she’s been seen around town with different guys, or if her name has come up in conversations about someone else’s love life, then there’s a good chance that she’s dating multiple people.
14. All Her Friends Sleep Around
If all her friends are serial cheaters, then it’s likely that she is as well.
This isn’t always the case, but it’s worth considering.
People often model their behavior after their friends, so if her friends like to sleep around, she is likely doing the same.
15. She Likes to Stare at Other Men
If a woman is constantly checking out other men when she is around her partner, it is a sign that she is not fully satisfied with him and potentially looking for something better.
16. She Has Photos With Different Men
If a woman’s social media profiles are full of intimate pictures and videos of her with different men, it is likely that she is sleeping with some of them.
Women interested in a serious relationship usually don’t post many photos with different men online.
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What to Do If Your Wife or Girlfriend Had a Lot of Partners?
It can be hard to accept that your girlfriend slept with a lot of guys before meeting you.
However, if she doesn’t give you any reasons to worry that she might be cheating right now, it is usually a good idea to accept her past.
People change with time especially when they meet their true soulmate and that’s why you need to get over the fact that your wife or girlfriend had a lot of partners.
You don’t have to remind or blame her for sleeping with a lot of guys because this is her past and no one can change it.
If you are the only guy she is seeing right now, what she did in the past shouldn’t matter.
Obviously, if she wasn’t honest about the number of guys she is been with before meeting you even when you asked, it might be a problem.
Finding out that your girlfriend actually slept with 30 or in more extreme cases 100 guys can be quite shocking especially if she only opens up about it a few years later after getting very drunk.
In cases like that, you will need to either accept her past or let her go.
Why Do Some Women Have Multiple Partners?
Not everyone is able or willing to only date one person at a time.
Some women are more open-minded than others and actually enjoy seeing more than one guy at a time.
Some women date multiple guys at a time because they didn’t find the right person yet while others are just afraid of commitment.
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