Do you want to make an older man go crazy for you? Seducing an older man is not much different from seducing younger guys, however, there are a few important things to keep in mind if you want to be successful.
There is nothing wrong with having a crush on an older guy as long as you are of legal age. However, it is always a good idea to avoid married guys because in most cases it never ends well.
Since it is much easier to seduce a guy who already likes you, here are some signs to look for to see if an older man is attracted to you.
10 Signs That an Older Man Likes You
- He glances at your body when you are not looking.
- He asks about your relationship status and personal life.
- He texts you in the evening or at night.
- He asks you out for no obvious reason.
- He compliments you on your looks.
- He smiles and makes longer than usual eye contact when talking with you.
- He always tries to help you out.
- You can see him getting a little jealous when you hang out or mention other guys.
- He opens up to you when the two of you are alone
- He touches you when chatting with you.
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How to Seduce an Older Man?
1. Make Him Feel Comfortable
Older guys will try to act professionally when around younger women to avoid coming across as creeps. That’s why it is important to let him know that you enjoy his company.
Even if the guy finds you attractive and enjoys glancing at you, he might still reject your advances if you don’t make him feel comfortable.
Usually, the best way to make him more comfortable is to spend more time with him. To do that ask him for some advice or help.
2. Show Him That You Don’t Mind Physical Contact
Touching a guy is one of the best ways to make him feel comfortable around you. It also helps to build physical attraction. Start slowly by touching his arm when talking and then progress to hugs when you leave or meet him.
You can also try to put your arms around him or even touch his leg to make a point while chatting.
3. Flirt With Him Over Text
Start it slow by asking what movie he is watching or how was his weekend. If you can feel that he enjoys texting you, get into more intimate texts like:
“I am so bored, just laying here in my bed. Do you know any good movies/books?”
“Do you think this dress would be appropriate for the office party tomorrow?“
“Okay, I am off to bed, wild dreams:)”
If things go well, try to make the talk more intimate by using innuendos.
It is also a good time to find out about his dating situation. Is he single and looking or is he dating someone?
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4. Ask Him Out for a Coffee
Asking for a coffee is an easy way to get yes without making the first meeting stressful.
Use this time to get to know him and continue flirting with him by touching his arm, playing with your hair, or biting your lip.
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5. Go Out for Drinks
Coffee dates are great for building comfort but if you want to escalate things going for drinks is a great way to do it. You can get him in a mood even before meeting by sending him a few cute attractive outfits and asking him which one looks better.
It is important to dress well when going for drinks but try to be classy at the same time as well. You don’t want to look like his sugar baby.
While chatting make strong eye contact and look at his lips every once in a while to let him know that you want him physically.
Try to sit close to him and touch his leg with yours to see how he reacts. If it is a loud venue use it to your advantage by whispering into his ear and touching them with your lips.
When he is comfortable, touch his thigh and this should be more than enough to make your intentions clear.
6. Propose to Go For a Walk
If the weather is nice, tell him that it would be awesome to walk or sit in a park and chat. If he doesn’t make his move there, use your body language to show him that you want him. Another trick is to tell him that you are cold and see if gives you a hug.
If the chemistry is strong you can skip this step. Just tell him that it is kind of loud in a bar and ask if he wants to go to his place to continue drinking there.
7. Ask Him to Watch a Movie in His Place
If things are going great, you can ask him if he wants to watch a movie at home.
“How about we go back to your place for some drinks and watch a movie?”
While in his house tell him that you are tired and you need a back rub. Or you can ask him to rub your legs because you have “cramps” or “sore muscles”.
Another trick is to try to sit on his lap or rub his leg with yours while watching a movie. Or just ask to cuddle.
If he doesn’t make a move, rub your body against him and this should be enough to seduce any guy.
Another trick is to wear something more revealing.
8. Be Prepared for His Excuses
He might hesitate to get in bed with you even if you are alone in his place because of the fear of being judged. If he doesn’t go for a kiss, be the one who initiates it. This way he knows that you are the one to blame if you end up sleeping together.
Try to be direct with what you want so that he knows that he is not being a creep. You can even tell him that you are not attracted to guys of your age to make him feel more comfortable.
Read more: How to Ask a Guy Out Without Getting Rejected?
What If an Older Man Rejects Your Advances?
There is always a chance of getting rejected when trying to attract someone. However, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go for a guy that you like.
If you look at the signs of attraction that we discussed, you will be able to significantly decrease the chance of rejection. Some older guys might reject you because of the fear of being judged by their friends and relatives and that is why it is very important to make the guy comfortable before you try to get intimate with him.
When the guy is taken, there is a high chance that he will reject you and this is another reason why going after married guys is not a good idea.
If you do get rejected, be polite and don’t feel bad about it because you gave it a try and if the guy doesn’t like you then maybe he is not the right match for you.
There are many other older guys who love younger women.
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