You just had the first date with a guy you met online. You felt a real connection and he seemed to really like you so one thing led to another and you ended up sleeping with him.
Now that the night of fun is over, you can’t help but wonder – does he actually like me or was he only trying to sleep with me?
You may also worry about what he thinks about you and if you should’ve waited a little longer to get to know him before hooking up.
However, what’s done is done and there is no point wasting your time regretting things that you can not change especially if you had a lot of fun.
Just because you slept with a guy too early it doesn’t mean that he will ghost and never talk to you again.
There are many couples that start their relationship by hooking up on their first date which usually happens because of the strong chemistry.
So let’s take a look at some signs that you will notice if the guy wants something more than one night stand with you.
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How Do You Know If a Guy Likes You After You Have Slept With Him?
1. He Doesn’t Leave Right Away
If the guy sticks around after sleeping with you, it is a good sign that he likes you.
It can be anything from cuddling and kissing to discussing future plans and getting to know you.
2. He Makes Plans for the Next Date
A guy who is interested in you might discuss plans to meet up again even before he leaves your place.
If he’s talking about what you should do together or suggesting a place to go, that’s a good sign that he’s looking to take things further with you.
3. He Opens up to You
If a guy you just slept with starts to open up to you and share things that he wouldn’t normally share, then this is a good indication that he has feelings for you.
This could be intimate details about his life, dreams, hopes, and fears.
4. He Wants To Hang Out Again
If he wants to meet up again after sleeping with you, then that’s usually a sign that he likes you especially if he is asking you to do something that doesn’t involve physical intimacy like going for dinner or a movie.
5. He Keeps Texting You
If he’s texting you after the hook-up, that’s a strong sign that he’s interested in more than just a physical relationship.
He may be asking how you’re doing, how was your night or sending funny pictures.
If he continues to text you, that’s a sure sign that he likes you and wants to spend time with you.
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What To Text a Guy After a Hookup?
But what happens if you slept with a guy you like but he didn’t message you right away?
Should you wait for him or should you go ahead and message him yourself?
If you liked the guy, there is no reason for you to wait for his text.
There is always a chance that he feels shy about texting you worrying that you didn’t like his performance or he did something to embarrass himself.
Here are some examples of the texts you can use to message the guy you hooked up with.
1. That was a wild ride, I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did!
2. I think I’m still trembling from all the things we did last night
3. I’m still trying to recover from all the excitement!
4. That was an experience I won’t forget anytime soon…
5. You certainly know how to show someone a good time
6. What were you thinking when you were kissing me last night?
7. Who needs sleep when we can stay up all night like this?
8. You know how to please a lady, that’s for sure!
9. I think it’s safe to say we have a connection.
10. Wow, I didn’t know we had that kind of chemistry!
11. That was one of the best nights of my life, thank you for making it so special!
12. I must say, you really know how to make a girl feel special…
13. That was a wild ride, you sure know how to keep a girl entertained!
14. Wow, you made me feel like I was in another world last night
15. That was a night to remember, don’t you think?
16. I never expected that to happen between us, but I’m glad it did.
17. I’m still thinking about how amazing last night was, you really know what you’re doing
18. That was definitely the best way to end the night!
19. I can’t believe we just did that – thank you for being so adventurous with me!
20. Last night was insane, I can’t believe how much fun we had together!
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Signs He Regrets Sleeping With You
Unfortunately sleeping with a guy you just met online before you had a chance to get to know him can often backfire especially if this happens when you are both drunk.
Here are some of the signs that you will notice if the guy regrets sleeping with you.
1. He starts avoiding you, taking longer to respond to texts, or not responding at all.
2. He might start making excuses for why he has to leave quickly when you are together, like needing to be somewhere else or having work obligations.
3. He may try to distance himself from you by avoiding physical contact, such as giving you fewer hugs or avoiding holding your hand. This means that he feels uncomfortable about what happened and is trying to create some emotional distance between the two of you.
4. If your conversations are now filled with awkward silences, this could also be another sign that something has changed between the two of you and he regrets getting intimate with you.
5. If he starts talking about how much better it would be if nothing had happened between the two of you, then this is clearly a sign that things went too far for him and now he regrets what he did.
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