Whether you are starting a conversation with your crush or a girl you’ve never met there are a few ways to improve your chances of getting a reply back and keeping a conversation going.
Most guys use the wrong approach when it comes to chatting with girls on Snapchat. They either go too strong or try to be someone they are not.
Using dirty language, weird jokes or pick-up lines will not improve your chances with a girl that you never met in real life. She doesn’t know you and might think that you are some kind of creep.
Instead, start a conversation with a more neutral topic or a question before trying to take things to the next level.
How to Message Girls That You Know in Real Life?
It is always easier to get a reply from a girl on Snapchat if she already knows you in real life.
However, don’t assume that just because you took the same math class in your junior high she still remembers you. Use your first message to tell her how you know her.
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If you know one of her friends, tell her about it as well. Having mutual friends will make her feel more comfortable chatting with you.
- Hey, I am Mike, we used to take the same math class last semester. How are you?
- Hey, this is Bob, we met at Kate’s birthday party last year. How are you doing?
- Hi, I was chatting with Jessica M. and she mentioned that you are really into surfing.
- Hey, I didn’t know you have Snapchat. How is your week going?
- The party at Mike’s place was crazy. Did you have fun?
However, if you see a girl daily at work, school or gym, skip Snapchat and approach her in real life. This will make you look more confident and you will likely get a better response.
How to Message Girls That Added You?
It is always easier to start a conversation with a girl who added you because it means that she is at least a little interested in you.
However, some of these girls might be too shy to message you and might wait for you to do the first step.
- Hi, I am Mike! I noticed that you in my friend’s list but I don’t think we ever met.
- Hey, you look familiar did we meet before?
- Hey, how do you know Ashley?
- Hey, do you go to UCLA by any chance?
- Hi, I don’t think we met. I am Peter.
Comment on Her Story
Another effective way to start a conversation with a girl on Snapchat is to comment on her story.
Try to use more than a single word when commenting on her Snapchat story to stand out.
For example say “This looks awesome”, “Where is this?” or “Looks like a lot of fun”
Other Snapchat Openers
- Your dog/cat looks so cute what is his name?
- Hey looks like you are really into hiking. What are your favorite hikes?
- Hey, I am Victor. How are you?
- I really like the filters you use. Your snaps always put a smile on my face.
- Love your stories. Are you from LA?
How to Be More Successful on Snapchat?
Most girls use Snapchat for entertainment so don’t be too serious when trying to flirt with girls. Stay calm and don’t expect too much when messaging girls on Snapchat.
Some guys get too invested in their messages and get upset or even angry at a girl if she doesn’t reply or suddenly stops messaging them. This only makes things worse by making you sound needy and desperate.
Snapchat is a great app to have fun but if you are only interested in meeting girls it might be a better idea to join a regular dating app instead.