81 Ways to Subtly Ask a Guy If He Likes You Over Text

Do you have a crush on a guy at school or work, but are not quite sure if he likes you back?

If you’re too nervous to ask him directly face-to-face, texting can be a good way to figure out how he feels about you.

Sending him something like, “Hey, I was wondering if you like me?” might be a bit too forward.

To avoid coming across as too desperate, you can use more subtle texts like, “I had a really great time with you the other day. Hope we can hang out again!“.

If he replies with something like, “How about this weekend?“, then you know he is interested in you.

Today we will share other text examples you can use to trick a guy into admitting he likes you without asking him directly.

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How to Subtly Ask a Guy If He Likes You Over Text?

1. Have you ever felt like there was something special between us?

2. I really like spending time with you. How about you?

3. Do you want to hang out more often?

4. Do you ever worry that I will find a boyfriend and will stop hanging out with you?

5. Do you ever get shy around me, or is that just me?

6. Is there something special about me that you like?

7. If I asked you to be my boyfriend, would you say yes?

8. I don’t know what it is, but it feels like something is happening between us. Any ideas?

9. Do you ever think about me when I’m not around?

10. Are you interested in me as more than a friend?

11. How do you really feel about me?

12. Do you ever get a weird feeling when we’re dating?

13. Are you thinking what I’m thinking?

14. Are you looking for a serious relationship or just want to have fun?

15. Do you feel like we understand each other better than most people?

16. Does it bother you when I talk to other guys?

17. If I had feelings for you, would you feel the same way?

18. Could you imagine us being more than friends someday?

19. Are you attracted to me?

20. If I asked to kiss you, would it scare you away?

21. Have you ever thought of me in a romantic way?

22. Do you ever think of us as more than just friends?

23. We have this connection that I can’t explain. Do you feel it as well?

24. I don’t usually believe in chemistry, but it seems like there’s something between us. What do you think?

25. If I asked you on a date, what would be your answer?

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26. Do you ever feel like we could be more than just friends?

27. If I asked you out, would you say yes?

28. Do you wish we could be more than friends?

29. Do you ever stare at me when I am not looking?

30. Would it surprise you if I told you that I had feelings for you?

31. How often do you think about me?

32. Have you ever wanted to kiss me?

33. Do you think I’m attractive?

34. Do you ever wonder what it would be like if we were a couple?

35. Do you ever get butterflies when I talk to you?

36. Could you ever see yourself falling for me?

37. What do you think about the idea of us being more than friends?

38. Did you ever think of me as more than just a friend?

39. Do you ever get jealous when I hang out with other guys?

40. Do you ever get nervous around me?

41. What do you think is the most attractive thing about me?

42. What would you do if I kissed you?

43. Are we just friends, or could it be something more?

44. What do you miss most about me when I’m not around?

45. How do I make you feel?

46. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to date me?

47. If I kissed you, would you kiss me back?

48. What do you find most attractive about me?

49. Do you think I am attractive?

50. Have you ever imagined us together in the future?

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51. Are you afraid to tell me how you feel?

52. It is so cold today! Do you want to come over and cuddle?

53. What do you think about when you look at me?

54. If I asked if you liked me, what would you say?

55. Would it be weird if I asked if you liked me more than just a friend?

56. Have you ever thought about us being more than friends?

57. Am I just a friend or something more to you?

58. I have a feeling that you like me, am I right?

59. Do you feel like we have a connection?

60. Do you ever wish that I was your girlfriend?

61. Do you ever think about me in a non-friend way?

62. Do you want to spend more time together?

63. When I’m not around, do you ever miss me?

64. Do you ever feel a spark between us?

65. Have you ever wanted to tell me something but were too scared to say it?

66. Have you ever had a dream about us being together?

67. I can’t help but feel like you like me more than just a friend.

68. I’m kind of curious to know what you think about me.

69. Are you interested in taking things further between us?

70. Are you attracted to me or is it just my imagination?

71. Are you holding back your feelings for me?

72. Is there something special about me that you like?

73. Do you have feelings for me?

74. Do you have a secret crush on me?

75. Have you ever wanted to kiss me?

76. If you could date anyone in the world, would it be me?

77. Do you wish we could be more than just friends?

78. How much do you like me on a scale of 1-10?

79. Would it be weird if I told you I have a crush on you?

80. Have you ever imagined us together as a couple?

81. Have you ever felt any kind of romantic attraction to me?

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