70 Ways to Respond When a Guy Says He Wants to Cuddle

You’ve been on a couple of dates with this guy and the chemistry is building up.

Then, one day, you receive a text from him saying that he wants to cuddle with you.

You get excited, but at the same time, you’re not quite sure how to respond.

Is he genuinely interested in me or is it his way to get into my pants?

Cuddling can be both a sweet and innocent gesture or it can be an invitation for something more intimate.

If he’s been respectful and patient so far, there’s a good chance he’s genuinely looking for a deeper connection.

However, if he constantly invites you over for late-night movie sessions or pressures you into physical intimacy, it is probably his invitation to sleep with you.

If you’re worried about things escalating, tell him about your intentions and boundaries.

Let him know that you’re looking for a long-term relationship and not just a hookup.

If he’s really interested in you, he will respect your wishes and take things at a pace you’re comfortable with.

Here are some examples of replies you can use whenever your guy crush sends you the “Want to cuddle?” text.

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How to Respond When a Guy Texts You That He Wants to Cuddle?

1. Is my teddy bear feeling lonely? Don’t worry, I’ll save the day!

2. As long as it’s not a cuddle and chill, I’m in!

3. Cuddles are like pizza, always a good idea. Count me in!

4. I’m not sure how strong my cuddle game is but let’s put it to the test!

5. Well, I’ve been told my cuddles are pretty magical…

6. Are we talking about the kind of cuddling that makes your toes curl and your heart race?

7. I’ve got a cuddle appointment open just for you…

8. Just thinking about cuddling with you is giving me goosebumps.

9. You want to cuddle? I hope you don’t mind if things get a little steamier as we go.

10. Let’s play a game called “How close can we get without crossing the line?” The winner gets to choose the next move.

11. If you’re good at cuddling, I might just have to reward you with some extra special attention…

12. I’ll cuddle with you, but only if you promise to misbehave just a little.

13. Our cuddle session might need a “Do Not Disturb” sign because I have a feeling we won’t want to be interrupted.

14. My cuddling skills have been known to cause uncontrollable sighs and weak knees.

15. You know, they say cuddling releases oxytocin, the love hormone. Are you prepared for the side effects?

16. Do you come with a satisfaction guarantee? Because I’m very careful about my cuddle partners.

17. You know, my bed has been feeling extra empty lately. It could definitely use some cuddling.

18. I’m not just a cuddle expert, I’m also great at keeping secrets. Do you want to find out what else I can do?

19. Once you start cuddling with me, you might not want to stop.

20. I’ve been practicing my cuddling moves so can’t wait to show you what I’ve learned.

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21. My cuddles come with a side of tickling and teasing. Are you fine with that?

22. My cuddles are like a rollercoaster – thrilling, exciting, and guaranteed to leave you wanting more.

23. Oh, are you ready to be my personal teddy bear tonight?

24. Hmm, naughty cuddles or innocent ones?

25. I heard cuddling can lead to other fun activities, is that what you have in mind?

26. I am already tingling with anticipation!

27. How about a cuddle session that lasts all night long?

28. I hope you don’t mind if my hands wander a bit during our cuddle session.

29. Let’s cuddle and see where our hands end up.

30. Are you prepared for the steamy cuddle session I have in mind?

31. Bet you can’t guess what I’ll be wearing for our cuddle date.

32. I’ll cuddle with you if you promise to keep me warm.

33. I like my cuddles like I like my coffee – hot and steamy!

34. Do you want to cuddle under the moonlight or under the sheets?

35. I never turn down an offer to be held tight and close by you.

36. My lips are getting lonely so they may need to join our cuddle session.

37. How about we make cuddling a full-contact sport tonight?

38. Oh, I’m definitely up for some cuddling but are you prepared for the steamy session that might follow?

39. How about we take that cuddling to the next level with a little game of Twister?

40. Why stop at cuddling?

41. I’ll cuddle with you, but only if you promise to whisper your naughty thoughts to me.

42. I’d love to cuddle with you but be warned that my hands have a mind of their own.

43. How about a massage?

44. Is your idea of cuddling the same as mine? Because I’m thinking less clothing and more touching.

45. I’m free for cuddling tonight, but I should warn you, I’m pretty irresistible up close.

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46. Let’s cuddle and see what other fun activities we can come up with to pass the time.

47. Oh, I’d love to be your little spoon…

48. Cuddling? Sure, but be warned, I might sneak in a few kisses too.

49. I’ll cuddle with you, but only if you can handle the heat.

50. I bet I can make you forget about cuddling once I get my hands on you.

51. Can’t wait to cuddle with you and maybe even more…

52. I’ll let you cuddle with me but be prepared for things to heat up quickly.

53. I’ll cuddle with you, but only if your hands get a little adventurous.

54. I’ll be your cuddle buddy tonight, but only if you promise to tease and please me.

55. I’ll be your cuddle bear today, but who knows what I’ll turn into once the lights go out?

56. I’ll cuddle you so hard, you’ll be begging me to stop.

57. I’d cuddle with you if you promise to make me scream your name at least once.

58. Cuddling sounds lovely, but I would rather just…

59. They say cuddling is the best form of foreplay, so let’s put that theory to the test.

60. I’d love to cuddle with you, but I’m not as innocent as I seem.

61. That sounds nice, but I’m working right now.

62. Maybe we can plan a cozy movie night soon.

63. Ah, you want to cuddle? We’ll have to see about that.

64. I’m a fan of cuddles too, but let’s take things slow, okay?

65. I’ve been waiting for you to say that.

66. I can’t wait for you to be my personal teddy bear.

67. Let’s see how close we can get without breaking any rules or maybe we should break a few?

68. The perfect plan for a night: you, me, and absolutely no space between us.

69. Cuddling is just the appetizer. I hope you’re hungry for the main course.

70. How about we cuddle and see if our clothes accidentally fall off in the process?

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