Did you have a rough day and just want to cuddle up with someone special?
Or are you looking for a way to get a little closer to your guy crush?
Whatever the reason, telling a guy that you want to cuddle can be a bit nerve-wracking.
After all, cuddling can be a very intimate experience and it’s important to approach it in the right way so that you don’t make your guy feel uncomfortable or pressured into something he doesn’t want to do.
You may also worry that the guy you are asking to come over and cuddle can misinterpret your invitation for something more intimate like making out.
The best way to avoid this is to be clear and honest about your intentions.
For example, don’t ask a guy to come over and cuddle at night because he will automatically assume that you want to sleep with him which is fine as long as that’s what you are looking for as well.
If your goal however is just to snuggle and spend time with him without any further expectations, then it’s important to make that clear.
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How to Tell a Guy You Want to Cuddle Over Text?
1. Can you come over so we can spend some time together and get cozy in front of the fireplace?
2. I can think of nothing better right now than snuggling up with you in bed and feeling your arms around me as I drift off into a peaceful sleep. Just thinking about it makes me so happy!
3. I really want to snuggle up with you right now – any chance you can come over?
4. Wish I could be in your arms and cuddle the night away
5. Let’s watch our favorite movie and enjoy each other’s company with lots of hugs and kisses!
6. Can’t stop thinking about wrapping my arms around you – any chance we can have a little cuddle session?
7. I’m in the mood for some quality spoon time – want to come over?
8. All I want right now is to be curled up beside you – any chance we can make that happen?
9. My couch is big enough for the two of us if you want to come over to cuddle and watch some Netflix
10. I miss cuddling with you like crazy! Nothing is better than lying in your arms
11. It’s been far too long since our last cuddle session – they’re always incredible, remember?
12. My couch calls out for us to have a cozy night watching romantic movies and hugging until the morning
13. Nothing beats cuddling when it comes to recharging after a long day! Want to come over?
14. It’s been ages since we had an evening filled with nothing but slow dancing around our living room followed by some quality cuddle time–let’s make this happen soon!
15. I don’t care what we watch, but all I want to do tonight is curl up on the couch next to you and cuddle until we fall asleep. Can we make that happen?
16. Let’s cozy up and cuddle together tonight, what do you say?
17. Do you want to hang out at my place, cuddle up and talk about life?
18. I’m in need of a big cuddle! Can you be my snuggle buddy tonight?
19. Sorry for the late-night text, but all I can think about is how much I want to cuddle with you
20. Let’s get comfortable on the sofa and watch our favorite show – nothing else! Just lots of kissing and hugging?
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21. Let’s have a cozy night in filled with cuddles, what do you think?
22. My body is missing your arms around me. Want to come over to satisfy my craving for some cuddles?
23. I could really use someone warm and comfortable to wrap my arms around!
24. Nothing keeps me warmer than your hugs – how about we watch a movie and cuddle the night away?
25. movies + popcorn + cuddling = fun?
26. Have I told you how much I love cuddling with you?
27. Sitting here alone, feeling so lonely – can’t wait to be wrapped in your arms again soon…
28. If only there was someone here by my side who could keep me warm all night long…
29. I’m craving some cuddles – coming over?
30. All this time apart is making me desperate for some hugs
31. I’ve been thinking about cuddling with you all day – are you available?
32. Hey cutie, can’t wait for a cuddle session tonight!
33. Know what would make me feel so much better right now? Cuddles from you!
34. When can we schedule our next cuddle session?
35. Hey there cuddle buddy, miss you already
36. If I could be anywhere right now it would be snuggling up with you
37. Come over and let’s get cozy!
38. My day is missing one thing – your arms around me
39. I bet we’d both feel a lot better if we were cuddling together on a couch in front of the fireplace. What do you think?
40. It may sound cheesy but all I need is just one tight hug from you
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41. I was just thinking about how great it would be to have you snuggled up next to me on the couch…
42. I have a craving for cuddles, and you’re the only one who can satisfy it!
43. You feeling like cuddling tonight or tomorrow night?
44. I could really use a big hug right now, would you be up for some cuddling time?
45. We should plan for lots of cuddles this weekend!
46. Wanting nothing more than your warm hug atm
47. I wish you could be here right now so that we could cuddle and watch a movie
48. Can’t stop thinking about how nice it would feel if were cuddling right now
49. My bed misses having two people in it. Want to come over and cuddle for a bit?
50. What do you think about us snuggling up and watching a movie tonight?
51. I wish we could just bundle together in my bed right now and never leave it
52. If only you were here, lying beside me so I could give you a big hug…
53. My blanket is missing something – or should I say someone?
54. Would you like to watch a movie on the couch with me? I think it might be nice if we had some cuddle time
55. A little skin-to-skin contact sounds pretty great right now. Want to come over and cuddle for a bit?
56. I’ve got some extra pillows, snacks, and cuddle space waiting for you if you’re interested…
57. Just thought of something that would make me so happy right now: cuddling with you!
58. It’s been too long since I’ve had someone to cuddle with
59. I’m feeling like cuddling this evening and would love some company!
60. It’s getting awfully cold here and I need someone to cuddle with to keep me warm
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61. I miss having someone warm near me!
62. I’m feeling a little cold and lonely – do you want to come over, wrap me up in your arms, and keep me warm?
63. Can’t sleep yet – wanna come and be my human teddy bear?
64. Feeling extra snugglable today – any chance you feel the same way?
65. Do you want to come over and have a little Netflix & cuddle session?
66. I could really use a cuddle buddy right now
67. Can I use your chest as a pillow?
68. Do you know what would make my night perfect right now? Cuddles from you!
69. Hey there handsome, how about some cuddle time tonight?
70. Let’s have a cozy night in and watch movies with lots of hugs!
71. Let’s just hang out on the sofa tonight – no strings attached! Just two friends enjoying each other’s company with lots of hugs!
72. I feel like a good cuddle would make me so much happier right now!
73. Hey, wanna come over here and share my blanket on the couch while watching TV together?
74. Would you mind if we did something low-key tonight like having a relaxing night at home by doing nothing but cuddling all evening long?
75. I’ve been feeling down lately, I think what I need is just your arms around me while we watch our favorite movie
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