Flirting is one of the best ways to attract an older guy.
Flirting with older men is not much different from flirting with younger guys with only a few minor differences.
Even as men get older they still suck at seeing cues when women are attracted so don’t be afraid to be obvious when flirting.
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What is Different About Flirting With Older Men?
It is hard for most guys to tell if the girl is just being friendly or actually interested.
Older men don’t want to be creepy and that’s why they may avoid flirting with much younger women.
Most of the older guys have established careers and one wrong move can ruin their reputation or even affect their job.
If you can make it clear to the guy that you don’t mind the age gap, it will be much easier for him to open up and flirt back.
One way to do so is to mention that your last boyfriend was 10 years older than you or tell him that you are not attracted to guys of your own age.
In general, you will have to do some chasing at the beginning just to show the guy that you are interested in him.
Depending on the guy you might have to be direct so that he is 100% sure that you will not be telling your girlfriends that he is a creepy old man because he misread your signals.
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How to Flirt with Older Man?
1. Ask for advice and listen
Flirting can be as simple as asking an older man for advice and listening to what he has to say.
While doing so keep eye contact.
Prolonged eye contact can do wonders when it comes to seduction.
2. Compliment him
Most guys don’t get many compliments from women so use this to your advantage.
Examples of how to compliment an older guy:
- Tell him that he looks fit and ask if he is into any sports.
- Tell him that you like his new haircut.
- Tell him that you love his perfume.
- Tell him that you like his smile, eye color, or any other facial features.
- Tell him that he looks like one of the celebrities or movie stars.
3. Just glance and smile at him
The safest way to flirt with an older man when you don’t know how he feels about you is just to make eye contact and smile.
You can do this almost everywhere.
It is harmless, easy, and virtually eliminates any type of rejection.
Based on the guy’s reaction you can figure out whether he is interested in you or not.
4. Playfully touch him
Innocent physical contact is one of the most effective flirting techniques.
You can touch his arm, shoulder, or hand when talking either to make a point or to grab his attention.
Other ways to initiate physical contact are to fix the collar on his shirt or touch his face with your hand and tell him that he has something there.
Even a small amount of physical touch can spark attraction.
If you feel comfortable when giving him a hug hold on to him a little longer than usual.
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5. Play with your hair or bite your lips
Playing with your hair while keeping eye contact can be a powerful way to subconsciously tell the guy that you like him.
An even better way to seduce him is to bite your lower lip after making eye contact with him.
You can also lick your lip after biting to make it more suggestive.
6. Come closer and whisper to him
Crowded or loud places are perfect for getting closer to the older man that you like without being too obvious.
If you are in a crowded bar, come closer and whisper in his ear.
Example: “I can’t believe it is so loud here. Can’t hear anything, maybe we should go somewhere quieter?”
7. Touch his feet when sitting across the table from him
If you are sitting close enough to him to reach his feet, use one of your feet to touch him.
After you do, just say that you are sorry and see how he reacts.
The trick is to remove your foot slowly.
8. Ask him if he likes your perfume
Tell him you bought a new perfume and want to know what he thinks.
If he can’t smell, move closer to him.
That’s a perfect time for some light touching.
Alternatively, you can ask what he thinks about your lipstick, your shirt, or pants.
Doing so will allow him to check you out without being creepy because you are the one who gave him permission.
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