Most guys absolutely love it when a girl sends them photos of herself, especially if the photos are a little frisky.
However, not every girl is comfortable or brave enough to send her suggestive photos to a guy.
So what can you do to persuade a girl you are seeing to be a little more open-minded when it comes to sharing her photos?
Every girl is different and while some girls might be okay or even enjoy sending their hot photos others might be completely disgusted by the idea of sending intimate photos of themselves to a guy.
That’s why it is important to understand why some women enjoy sending photos of themselves to guys while others don’t.
Top 10 Reasons Why Some Women Like To Send Their Photos
- It makes her feel powerful and desirable
- She enjoys the compliments and attention she gets
- She does it to attract a guy
- She likes to arouse a guy
- She wants a guy to send his own hot photos to her
- She is bored and wants some fun
- She wants to feel more desirable
- She wants to spice things up
- She wants to surprise him
- She is comfortable with her body
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Why Some Girls Don’t Want to Send Their Photos?
Now let’s take a look at why some girls are unwilling to send dirty photos of themselves to a guy.
The number one reason why many women are afraid of sending intimate photos is the fear that their pictures will end up on the internet or they will share them with someone else.
Even if you are not the type of guy who shares private photos of girls with your friends, there is still a chance that her photos might become public.
Your phone might get stolen or you by mistake may upload photos online.
If you are dating a shy girl who never had a boyfriend, it is unlikely that she will be willing to send you her suggestive photos.
However, it doesn’t mean that your shy girlfriend will not change her mind later when she gets more comfortable with you.
There are also girls who are very shy about their bodies and will only send you photos after they are sure that you will not judge them.
On the other hand, a girl who is willing to share her private photos with you right after you meet her likely did this before and is very comfortable with her body.
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How to Get a Girl to Send You Pictures of Herself?
1. Make Her Feel Comfortable
The girl needs to feel comfortable around you before she will send you any of her pictures.
Persuading your girlfriend to send photos will be much easier than a girl you just met online.
When a girl sends you her frisky photos, it usually means that she wants to sleep with you. In most cases, girls send their intimate photos only after they slept with a guy.
If you just met and your chemistry is not strong enough, it is probably not a good time to ask for her pictures.
2. Take Your Time
If you want a girl to send you a more risque picture like for example her in a bra, you first need to make her comfortable sending regular photos.
Never directly ask her for suggestive photos because this will be a turn-off for most girls.
Instead, say something like:
“Hey, send me your selfie I already miss you”
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3. Compliment Her
After she sends you a photo of herself make sure to compliment her.
- “Your body is so perfect”
- “You are so in shape”
- “You are so pretty”
- “Wow, you look absolutely stunning.”
- “That outfit looks incredible on you.”
- “Your smile is breathtaking.”
- “You’ve got such a gorgeous figure.”
- “Every photo of you is like a new masterpiece.”
- “Your eyes are so captivating.”
- “I can’t get over how amazing you look.”
- “You’ve truly got a body that could stop traffic.”
- “The way you look in that photo is enchanting.”
- “I find myself lost for words at how gorgeous you are.”
- “Everything about you is irresistibly hot.”
This will make her feel more comfortable and she will be less shy to send more photos later.
4. Play Games With Her
One way to get a girl to send you her hot photos is to play a game and ask for a photo if she losses.
Here are some ideas of the games you can play:
- Truth or Dare – “Did you ever send a dirty photo to anyone before?” or “Send me a photo of your bra”
- Would you rather? – “Would you rather send an intimate photo of yourself to a guy you just met online or your neighbor?”
- Never have I ever – “Never have I ever taken a dirty photo of myself”
5. Get Her in a Mood
It is much easier to get a girl to send you her photos if she feels turned on.
One way to do this is to talk dirty to her.
Examples of How to Talk Dirty to a Girl
- You looked so tasty last night
- What are you wearing right now?
- What color is your bra?
- Your lips taste so good
- I miss touching you all over your body
- I wish you were lying here next to me
- The things I want to do to you right now…
- I had a juicy dream about you last night
- I heard you’ve been a bad girl…
- Just thinking about you makes me so …
- My mind is wandering to all the ways I can make you feel amazing.
- The anticipation of seeing you again is getting too much to handle. I’ve got so many plans for us.
- I can almost feel the softness of your hair between my fingers and your sighs in my ear.
- Would you like it if I told you all the naughty things running through my mind right now?
- Thinking about the way you moan when you’re really into it…it’s all I can focus on.
Example of how to turn a girl on over text
You: I had a juicy dream about you last night
Girl: What was it about? lol
You: I was taking a shower and then suddenly you came in
Girl: Sounds interesting
You: After that, you took all your clothes off, and then we started making out
Girl: I don’t know why but this starts to turn me on…
You: Well, making out wasn’t the only thing that we did…
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6. Wait for the Right Timing
It is not a good idea to ask a girl who is currently at work to send you her photos. Instead, wait for the time when she is alone and preferably not wearing much clothing.
For example, if she mentions that she is lying in a bathtub, on a bed, or trying to find the right dress to wear, that’s the time to ask her for a picture.
She is already basically undressed so it will be easier for her to say yes and send you something more risque.
Usually texting her late at night when she is lying in bed is the best time to ask her for some hot photos.
7. Ask for Something More Suggestive
After she sends you a fully clothed photo of herself you can try asking for something riskier.
- “Can I see it from behind?”
- “I miss your 🍑 so much can I see it?”
- “Can I see the rest of your body?”
- “Can I see how flexible you are”
- “Can I see what color is your bra?”
- “You are so beautiful! Can I see how you look without your shirt?”
- “I keep thinking about your smile. Can I see what you look like without your top?”
- “You talk about your gym routine a lot. Can you show me your muscles?”
- “I bet you look amazing in your pajamas. Mind showing me?”
- “You always look great. Can I see how you look right when you wake up?”
- “I’m curious about your new tattoo. Can you show me where it is?”
- “You’ve got such a great style. What does it look like when you’re just in socks?”
- “Your stories about yoga are so cool. Can I see one of your poses?”
- “That new swimsuit sounds awesome. Mind giving me a preview?”
- “I love it when you talk about cooking. Can I see you in just an apron?”
- “You mentioned loving to dance. Can I see your dance moves with less on?”
- “Your skin looks so soft in pictures. Can I see what it looks like up close?”
If she is hesitating, tell her that she doesn’t have to show her face.
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8. Tell Her You Are Going to Delete the Photos Right Away
Even celebrities get their photos leaked online and to make your girl feel a little easier about sharing her pictures, tell her that you will delete them right away.
Make sure that you keep your promise!
9. Ask Her to Send a Photo Over Snapchat
This way she will be more comfortable because she knows that the photo will be deleted and she can also see if you try to take a screenshot.
10. Be the One Who Sends the First Photo
You can try sending your photo to her first and see how she reacts.
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How to Ask a Girl for a Picture of Her Face?
Often, asking a girl for a picture of her face is the easiest way to make her feel comfortable sharing more personal types of photos with you.
It’s like dipping your toes in the water before taking a dive – it shows respect for her boundaries and comfort levels.
So let’s take a look at some examples of what you can say to get a girl to send you the photos of her face.
- “Hey, I was just thinking about you and really wished I could see your smile. Would you mind sending a pic?”
- “About to start my morning run. What’s your morning face like? Send a pic and I’ll share mine!”
- “Out of the blue, but I realized I’ve never seen your ‘just woke up’ face. Dare to share?”
- Considering how much your messages have brightened my day, I can only imagine what your smile could do. Do you think you could send a picture of it?”
- I hope this doesn’t come across as too forward, but I’ve been genuinely enjoying our talks, and I’d love to put a face to the name. May I have a photo of you?
- I must admit, I’m a little curious about the person behind these intriguing messages. Any chance you’d share a snapshot of your day, featuring you, of course?
Cute Ways to Ask a Girl for a Picture
Asking for a picture doesn’t have to be awkward or forward. Below are examples of cute and respectful ways to ask a girl for her picture.
- “I’d love to see your smile today. Could you send a pic?”
- “Help me win a bet about the best smile ever? I’m betting on yours.”
- “I keep bragging about your beautiful eyes. Can I show my friends why?”
- “My phone background looks dull. Could you brighten it up with your picture?”
- “Needing some inspiration today. How about a picture of you?”
- “I’m gathering photos of things that make me happy. Will you be in my collection?”
- “If I send you a goofy selfie, will you send one back?”
- “Can I get a picture of you for more accurate dreams tonight?”
- “Realized I don’t have a photo of you in my contacts. Can we fix that?”
- “Need proof that angels exist for my friends. Mind sending a pic?”
- “How about a picture to start my day?”
- “Missing your face. Can you send a picture so it keeps me company?”
- “If I meet a genie, I’d like to show him what my wish looks like. Picture, please?”
- “We’re miles apart, but could you send a photo? It’s like having you here with me.”
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How to Respond When a Girl Sends You a Dirty Picture?
It is important to let a girl know that you really enjoyed the photo that she sent you.
Here are some examples of how to do it:
- “I will have non-PG dreams after seeing this”
- “How am I supposed to sleep after this?”
- “You look so tasty/delicious”
- “wow you look like a painting”
- “Look what you to me” (send your own photo to her)
- “I need to see this in person asap”
- “Now I want to do bad things to you”
- “Looks like you are pretty flexible”
- “You’ve just made my day infinitely better.”
- “This is the best surprise I could have asked for.”
- “You’re seriously the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen.”
- “Your confidence is so hot.”
- “I’m speechless, and that never happens.”
- “You’ve made me forget how to form complete sentences.”
- “I keep scrolling up to make sure I wasn’t dreaming.”
- “Are you trying to give me a heart attack? Because it’s working.”
- “You are art in its purest form.”
- “I’m going to need a moment to process this level of hotness.”
- “Every part of me just woke up.”
- “This picture just stole my breath away.”
- “I feel like I should thank the universe or something.”
- “How do you manage to be this irresistible?”
- “I thought my imagination was good, but this is another level.”
Another fun way to respond is to send her an emoji.
How to Respond When a Girl Doesn’t Want to Send You Her Photos?
Some women are okay with sharing their private photos with guys they are seeing while others are not.
If your girl says no, you need to play it cool and be mature about it.
Here are some examples of how you can respond:
- “I didn’t mean your private pictures lol”
- “I just wanted to see your face”
- “Sorry about it, I just really miss you”
- “I thought it would be fun while we are not together”
- “I understand your privacy. Let’s just keep enjoying our conversations!”
- “No worries at all, I respect your decision.”
- “It’s okay, your comfort is the most important thing to me.”
- “I realized that might have come off wrong, my apologies.”
- “Hey, I totally get it. We can share when and if you ever feel like it.”
- “Your boundaries are important to me, so I’m cool with that.”
- “Sorry if that made you uncomfortable, it wasn’t my intention.”
- “It’s all good, I admire your stance on privacy.”
- “Makes sense to me. Let’s keep getting to know each other in other ways.”
- “Absolutely no problem, I didn’t mean to overstep.”
- “Thanks for being open about it, I appreciate your honesty.”
- “Let’s save the photo-sharing for a future where you might feel more comfortable.”
- “Cool with me. I’m more excited about planning our next adventure together!”
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