The allure of being a sugar baby attracts all type of women to go out and find that man who will satisfy their financial needs, but in reality, sugar daddies are looking for a whole lot more than a money hungry diva.
The sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is often misunderstood. Of course, there is a certain financial arrangement attached to the relationship, but it’s much more sophisticated than the idealizations most women conjure up when hunting for their future sugar daddy.
Sophistication is Key
Did YOU know?
1) Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men found a relationship at a bar or club
2) 38% of singles are using online dating
3) One in six marriages now begin online
It’s not enough to be beautiful. Yes, of course, being attractive and sexy will grab a sugar daddies attention, but they’re looking for something particular, someone special to spend their time with. They want a woman who is also searching for something specific. If you give off the impression that any sugar daddy will do, you’ll quickly lose their attention. Sugar daddies want a woman who knows what she wants out of the relationship, too, and not just the money. It’s a delicate dance. Prove that class, elegance, and sophistication all matter to you, and they’ll be eager to win your time and affection.
Keep Money Talk to Minimal
‘Sugar daddy’ can be a misleading term. The words themselves notate that money is the essence of the relationship, and while it is a significant part, it is an aspect that requires a delicate approach. When women think of attracting a sugar daddy they tend to focus on benefiting financially; however, sugar daddies don’t want open discussions about financial arrangements. They understand what they’re offering, and they expect you to know as well. There’s no need to clarify amounts or demand payments. Sugar daddies are not and don’t want to feel like they are paying for sex. Leave conversations involving money to the side. He will respect your discreetness and reward you with unexpected gifts and fancy dinners at the appropriate times.
He Values Your Time and Affection
You may have a part-time job or attending college classes, but in any case, your sugar daddy will expect you to set aside time to be with him. Most sugar daddies have demanding schedules involving jobs, meetings, possibly wives and children, and maybe even other sugar babies as well- yes, you may not be the only sugar baby in his life (some of these men have very large appetites and egos to feed). They expect when they’re available, you should be available, too. You are an outlet from the stress and worries of their daily demands. They need assurance that you’ll be there to shower them with attention, the attention a polished sugar baby will have him utterly craving throughout the day.
They’ll require more than your time, though. Sugar daddies want to be adored. They want to feel like you’ve been waiting all day just to see them. Don’t bother them with your troubles, or meet with them in a bad mood. Instead, listen to them, sympathize with them, and be sensuous to their needs. Hopefully, you can take it a step further and become genuinely intrigued by them. If they sense genuine affection, they’ll be all the more prone to shower you with lavish gifts. So, get to know him, show interest in his work and hobbies, and remember you are a stress reliever, not a stress creator.
Sex is Part of the Relationship
Some women may feel uncomfortable with the idea of being intimate with a sugar daddy, but let’s be honest when outlining this relationship; most sugar daddies will want to have sex with their sugar babies. You’ll just have to get used to the fact that encounters with your sugar daddy will most likely involve intimacy. In terms of physical intimacy, the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is not unlike most other relationships between two individuals. There is a period where you get to know one another, establishing if there is a true connection that should be further explored, and it’s no surprise that part of that connection is physical. Don’t be naive in thinking your sugar daddy won’t desire to have sex because, in all truthfulness, it’s considered part of the arrangement in most cases.
Compatibility Sustains the Relationship
If you want to hold on to a sugar daddy for an extended period of time, you’ll have to develop chemistry with him. The best way to do this is just to be yourself. Men are quite perceptive when it comes to discovering a woman’s intentions. It’s important for them to find someone they’re compatible with, but they don’t want a fake or disingenuous woman. They want someone they feel comfortable with, who they can share their intimate feelings with in confidence. If they don’t like the real you, then it’s better to move on since it’s probable that the relationship wouldn’t have lasted very long anyway.
In the end, it’s important to realize that sugar daddies are looking for more than just a sexy woman to have the occasional intimate encounter with. They’re searching for a connection with a sophisticated, classy lady who is willing to lend their precious time and affection with genuine interest. In return, it’s an unspoken agreement that a sugar baby will be rewarded with the financial benefits that accompany such tender admiration. The more special you make your sugar daddy feel, the more benefits you’ll receive.