You are texting a guy.
Everything seems normal.
Then he says:
Send me a pic.
And suddenly you are staring at your phone thinking:
A picture of what exactly?
Because he already knows what you look like.
Maybe you matched on a dating app where your profile contains six photos.
Maybe you have Instagram.
Maybe you met him in person yesterday.
Maybe he has literally been sitting across from your face for three dates.
Yet here he is asking for another picture.
Why?
Does he like you?
Is he flirting?
Is he checking whether your dating profile photos are recent?
Does he want to show your picture to his friends?
Is he hoping the innocent selfie eventually turns into something else?
And most importantly:
Do you actually have to send one?
No.
You never owe someone a picture just because they ask.
But the reason behind the request can range from completely harmless to very telling.
The easiest way to understand it is to look at when he asks, what kind of picture he wants, and how he reacts if you say no.
Why Does a Guy Ask for a Picture of You?
Usually, one of a few things is happening.
He thinks you are attractive and wants to see you.
He wants a current picture because you met online.
He is flirting.
He wants to feel more connected while you are apart.
He hopes you will start exchanging pictures with each other.
Or he simply likes receiving attention from you.
There is not one universal meaning.
A boyfriend saying:
Send me a selfie. I miss your face.
is very different from a dating app match you spoke to for eleven minutes saying:
Send a full body pic right now.
Same basic request.
Very different feeling.
Context is everything.
Does a Guy Asking for Your Picture Mean He Likes You?
It can.
If a guy likes looking at you, asking for a selfie is not exactly shocking behavior.
Maybe he is sitting at work and wants to see your face.
Maybe you mentioned getting your hair done and he wants to see it.
Maybe he simply thinks you are cute.
That is often all it means.
If you are already dating and he says:
Let me see you.
there is a good chance attraction is part of the reason.
But a picture request by itself does not prove serious romantic interest.
A guy can want pictures of you without wanting a relationship.
That distinction matters.
Look at everything else.
Does he make plans?
Does he ask about your life?
Does he show up when he says he will?
Does he communicate when he is not asking for pictures?
Does he seem interested in knowing you or mainly interested in looking at you?
Those answers tell you much more.
Why Does He Ask for Selfies When He Already Has My Dating Profile Pictures?
This is one of the biggest questions in online dating.
You matched on Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, or another app.
Your profile already has multiple photos.
Then he asks:
Can you send me a selfie?
You are thinking:
Did the first six pictures somehow fail to explain my face?
Possibly, he wants to know whether the profile accurately represents what you look like now.
Dating profiles are carefully selected.
People choose flattering lighting.
Good angles.
Vacation pictures.
Wedding pictures where someone spent an hour doing their hair.
A casual selfie taken today feels more current.
He may be trying to reassure himself that you are actually the person in the profile before meeting.
That does not automatically make the request rude.
But you still get to decide whether you want to participate.
He Might Be Checking That You Are Real
Online dating contains fake accounts.
Old photos.
Heavily edited photos.
And people who look surprisingly different from the person represented on their profile.
So some daters like a little reassurance before meeting.
A current selfie can provide that.
That is one possible reason someone asks.
But personally, I think there is an easier solution if verification is the real concern.
A quick video call.
Ten minutes.
Now both people know who they are talking to.
Nobody has to collect additional photos from a stranger.
You can say:
I do not really send random selfies, but I would be happy to do a quick video call before we meet.
A reasonable person who genuinely only wanted verification should be able to work with that.
What If You Already Met Him in Person?
Then he obviously knows you are real.
So the reason is probably different.
If you have already gone on dates and he asks:
Send me a picture of you.
he may simply want to see you because he likes you.
That is cute.
Maybe he misses you.
Maybe he wants to flirt.
Maybe you are talking about what you are wearing and he wants to see.
Maybe he enjoys receiving pictures from someone he is attracted to.
There is nothing especially mysterious about this.
People like looking at people they like.
Why Does He Ask for a Selfie Every Day?
Now I would pay attention to the pattern.
Occasionally asking:
Let me see your new haircut.
Normal.
Every single morning:
Send me a selfie.
Then again at lunch:
Pic?
Then that evening:
Let me see you.
Okay.
At some point, you are allowed to wonder why this has become an assignment.
Maybe he genuinely loves seeing your face.
Sweet.
Maybe receiving pictures makes him feel close to you.
Also possible.
But maybe he likes the validation of asking and receiving.
He requests something.
You stop what you are doing.
Take several pictures.
Choose the best one.
Send it.
He receives a little proof that you are thinking about him and willing to perform for his attention.
If you enjoy that dynamic, fine.
If you are getting annoyed, that matters too.
Why Do Guys Ask for Selfies Out of Nowhere?
Sometimes because they have no better way to restart the conversation.
You have not talked for a few hours.
Then:
Selfie?
That may basically mean:
Pay attention to me.
Not necessarily in a sinister way.
He might simply be bored and wants to interact with you.
He may think asking for a picture feels flirtier than:
What are you doing?
But if every conversation starts turning into requests for photos, you are allowed to expect a little more substance.
You can like somebody’s face and still know how to ask about their day.
What If He Says “Send Me a Pic Right Now”?
The “right now” part can make the request feel different.
Maybe he wants a spontaneous picture.
No makeup preparation.
No selecting something from your camera roll.
He wants to see what you actually look like at that moment.
Again, this may be harmless.
He might think spontaneous pictures are cute.
But you are not participating in an identity verification challenge.
You can say:
Absolutely not. I look like I have been fighting my laundry for three hours.
Or:
You will have to survive without seeing me for now.
If you want to keep it playful.
You can also simply say:
I do not really like taking selfies.
That should be enough.
Why Does He Want a Picture Without Makeup?
Maybe he is curious about what you naturally look like.
That does not automatically make him terrible.
But the way he asks matters enormously.
There is a difference between:
You look beautiful either way. I would love to see your sleepy morning face sometime.
and:
Send me a picture with no makeup so I can see what you actually look like.
One feels affectionate.
The other feels like someone conducting an inspection.
You are dating.
You are not returning a used vehicle.
If someone makes you feel like you need to prove your appearance is acceptable, you can decline.
Why Does He Ask for a Full Body Picture?
This one is usually easier to understand.
He wants to see your body.
Maybe your dating profile only has close pictures of your face.
Maybe he wants a better idea of what you look like before meeting.
Maybe physical attraction is important to him.
Fine.
Physical attraction is part of dating.
But you still do not owe anyone extra photographs.
Especially if your profile already has recent full body photos.
If someone sees four clear pictures of you and then says:
Send another full body picture.
you are allowed to find that strange.
At that point, you might ask:
Why? There are already full pictures on my profile.
His answer will probably tell you more than guessing.
What If He Keeps Asking for Different Angles?
No.
We are not doing a product catalog.
Front.
Side.
Standing.
Different outfit.
Another one.
Sir, the audition has ended.
If somebody needs an extensive photo collection before agreeing to meet for coffee, you can decide this is not your kind of person.
You are allowed to want attraction.
You are also allowed to want to be treated like an actual human while somebody determines whether they are attracted to you.
What If He Wants a Picture Before the First Date?
This is increasingly common in online dating.
You match.
Exchange numbers.
Make plans.
Then he asks for a current selfie.
He may be checking that your profile is accurate.
You can send one if you are comfortable.
But you do not have to.
Try:
My profile pictures are current, so I think you will survive until Friday.
Playful.
Or:
I am terrible at random selfies. You can see me when we meet.
Or:
I would rather do a quick video call if you want to make sure I am real.
All completely reasonable.
What If You Sent Him a Normal Selfie and He Asks for Another?
Maybe he liked it.
Good news.
But notice what he wants next.
You send a casual picture.
He says:
Cute. Another one?
Maybe this is just flirting.
You send another.
Then:
Full body?
Okay.
Now you can see where the conversation is heading.
You are allowed to stop at any point.
You do not need to continue because you already sent one.
Consent to Picture One is not a subscription service.
What If He Keeps Asking for Pictures but Never Asks You Out?
This is where I become less impressed.
You have been talking for two weeks.
He has requested:
Selfies.
Outfit pictures.
Hair pictures.
Pictures from work.
Pictures before bed.
He has somehow acquired an impressive visual documentary of your life.
Still no date.
What exactly is he building?
An archive?
If you met on a dating app because you want to date, I would redirect the conversation.
You can say:
You ask for enough pictures of me. When are you actually taking me out?
Perfect.
Now watch.
If he says:
Saturday?
Great.
Maybe the picture requests were simply part of flirting.
If he avoids the date question and asks for another selfie tomorrow?
That tells you something too.
Why Does He Ask for Pictures but Barely Talk to Me?
Because he may enjoy visual attention more than conversation.
He appears.
Pic?
You send one.
Beautiful.
Then disappears.
Tomorrow:
Send me a selfie.
No question about your day.
No actual conversation.
No plan.
That is not automatically awful if you enjoy casual flirting.
But if you are looking for someone who actually wants to know you, this pattern may become disappointing quickly.
You do not need to keep producing photos hoping eventually he becomes curious about your personality.
What If He Asks for a Picture After You Get Dressed Up?
That one is pretty normal.
You say:
Going to my friend’s wedding tonight.
He says:
Let me see the outfit.
He probably wants to see you dressed up.
If you like him, send it.
Maybe:
Fine, but you only get one.
Then enjoy the compliment.
Sometimes there really is no secret psychological meaning.
He thinks you look good and wants to see.
What If He Asks for a Picture of Your New Hair?
Again, he wants to see the hair.
We do not need a federal investigation.
You say:
I cut my hair today.
Of course:
Show me.
If you like how it looks, send the photo.
If you hate it and are currently wearing a hat until further notice:
Absolutely not. You can see the damage in person.
Also acceptable.
What If He Asks for a Picture of What You Are Wearing?
This can be innocent or flirty depending on context.
You say:
I have a work event tonight.
He says:
What are you wearing?
Maybe he is curious.
Maybe he wants to compliment you.
If this is a guy you are dating, completely normal.
If you barely know him and every clothing conversation becomes:
Show me.
you may feel differently.
You are allowed to decide when sharing feels fun and when it starts feeling invasive.
Why Does He Ask for Pictures Late at Night?
Timing matters.
If he talks to you normally all day and happens to ask for a selfie at night, fine.
If he only appears around midnight with:
Send me a pic.
and never seems interested in anything else?
That probably tells you what kind of interaction he is prioritizing.
You do not need to shame him.
You simply need to ask whether that is what you want too.
If not:
I am not really into late night picture requests.
Clear.
What If He Starts Asking for More Revealing Pictures?
You can say no.
No explanation required.
You can say:
I do not send those.
Or:
Not my thing.
Or:
You are getting ambitious. Normal selfies are where I stop.
A guy who respects you will understand.
If he starts negotiating:
Come on.
Just one.
I sent you something.
Don’t be boring.
Now you have learned something useful.
The issue is no longer the picture.
It is that he heard your boundary and decided his desire mattered more.
That is not cute flirting.
What If He Says “I Sent You One, So You Have to Send Me One”?
No, you do not.
He chose to send you his picture.
That does not create a legally binding selfie exchange agreement.
You can say:
I did not ask you to send one.
Or, if you want something lighter:
That sounds like a rule you invented five seconds ago.
If he gets upset, let him be upset.
You are not required to trade pictures evenly like baseball cards.
Does He Want to Show My Picture to His Friends?
Maybe.
People absolutely show friends pictures of people they are dating.
You probably do it too.
Your friend asks:
What does he look like?
Phone appears immediately.
That is normal.
But if you are worried about where a specific photo might go, only send pictures you are comfortable losing control over.
Once you send a picture, you cannot completely control what happens to it afterward.
That does not mean you should become terrified of sending selfies.
It just means use common sense.
What If He Screenshots My Selfie?
This depends on where you sent it.
If you know he saved the picture and it bothers you, ask why.
I noticed you saved that. What are you doing with it?
Maybe he says:
I really liked the picture and wanted to keep it.
If you are dating and comfortable with that, sweet.
If you barely know him, you might feel differently.
You are allowed to say:
I would rather you not save my pictures.
Again, his reaction matters.
Why Does My Boyfriend Ask for Pictures of Me?
Because he likes you.
Hopefully.
If you are already together and he says:
Send me your face. I miss you.
that is usually just affection.
Maybe you are apart.
Maybe he is having a bad day.
Maybe he likes opening his phone and seeing you.
This is very different from a stranger demanding pictures.
The existing relationship changes the meaning.
Although even in a relationship, you are still allowed to say:
Not today. I look exhausted.
Being someone’s girlfriend does not require permanent camera access.
Why Does a Guy I Just Met Ask for My Picture?
I would be more cautious here.
If he met you in person, he already knows what you look like.
So ask yourself what kind of picture he wants.
A simple:
Send me that picture you were talking about.
Fine.
A random:
Send me a selfie.
Could be flirting.
Repeated picture requests immediately after meeting?
Maybe slow things down and see whether he is equally interested in having a conversation and arranging another date.
You do not have to provide unlimited access just because he finds you attractive.
What If a Guy Friend Asks for a Selfie?
Could be completely friendly.
Friends send each other pictures.
Maybe he wants to see your haircut.
Maybe you are talking about looking exhausted after work.
Maybe you have the kind of friendship where random photos are normal.
Romantic meaning becomes more likely if the requests suddenly start changing along with other behavior.
More compliments.
More flirting.
More interest in who you are dating.
More requests to spend time alone.
The selfie request alone is not enough.
What If Your Crush Asks for a Picture?
Okay.
Now you are excited.
Understandably.
Your crush says:
Send me a selfie.
There is a decent chance he wants to see you because he finds you attractive.
If you want to flirt back, send one you like.
Then say:
Your turn.
Simple.
Now you get a picture too.
Everyone wins.
What Should You Say When a Guy Asks for a Selfie?
If you want to send one:
Only if you send one back.
Or:
Fine. You get one.
Or:
Since you asked nicely.
Or:
Give me a second. I look like I just fought a bear.
Or just send it.
You do not need dialogue for everything.
Flirty Replies When He Asks for a Picture
Try:
Miss my face already?
Why, did you forget what I look like?
You just want an excuse to look at me.
What do I get in return?
You are getting demanding today.
Maybe. Ask nicely.
Are you collecting pictures of me now?
You could always see me in person instead.
That last one is especially useful if you want an actual date.
Cute Replies When He Says “Send Me a Pic”
Try:
Only because you asked.
Fine, but this is today’s exclusive content.
I look ridiculous right now, but okay.
One picture. Use it wisely.
You really like seeing my face, don’t you?
I suppose I can make your day better.
Keep it natural.
You know how the two of you talk.
Use something that sounds like you.
Funny Replies When a Guy Asks for a Selfie
You can say:
My appearance fee is getting expensive.
The selfie department is currently closed.
Today’s face is unavailable due to maintenance.
You already know what I look like.
Please refer to previously submitted materials.
I am not camera ready and the public deserves better.
You get one selfie per billing cycle.
A joke is also a useful way to see whether he can handle not immediately getting what he wants.
What If You Do Not Want to Send a Picture?
Say that.
I am not really into sending selfies.
Perfect.
Or:
I hate taking pictures of myself. You can see me in person.
Or:
I would rather not.
Done.
You do not need:
I am so sorry, I hope you are not offended, I just have this weird thing where I do not really like photos and maybe later if I feel more comfortable…
No.
You are declining a selfie.
The United Nations does not need to become involved.
What If He Calls You Boring for Saying No?
Then I would become considerably less interested in him.
You say:
I do not really send pictures like that.
He says:
You’re no fun.
Maybe he is teasing lightly.
Fine.
But if he keeps pushing?
That is different.
People sometimes disguise pressure as joking.
Come on.
Don’t be lame.
Everyone sends pictures.
Why are you making this weird?
You are not making it weird.
You gave an answer.
He is refusing to accept it.
What If He Gets Angry When You Will Not Send a Selfie?
Excellent information.
Not pleasant information.
But excellent.
You have discovered how he responds to a very small boundary.
Imagine what happens when the boundary actually matters.
Someone who becomes angry because you would not provide a photograph on demand is showing you something about entitlement.
You do not need to keep explaining.
You can stop the conversation.
What If He Accuses You of Being Fake?
If you met online and he genuinely worries that you are fake, suggest a video call.
I understand wanting to verify. I would rather do a quick video call than send more pictures.
Problem solved.
If he refuses the video call but continues demanding photos?
Interesting.
Apparently verification was not the only goal.
Is Asking for a Selfie Before Meeting a Red Flag?
Not automatically.
Context matters.
One polite request:
Would you mind sending a current selfie? I have had some strange experiences with old pictures before.
You can understand where that comes from.
You can still say no.
A demand:
Send me a full body pic right now.
followed by anger when you hesitate?
That is different.
The request itself is less important than the attitude around it.
When Does Asking for Pictures Become a Red Flag?
When your answer does not matter.
That is the simplest rule.
He asks.
You say no.
He accepts it.
Probably fine.
He asks.
You say no.
He pressures you.
Complains.
Insults you.
Tries to make you feel guilty.
Keeps asking in different ways.
Now the issue is not photography.
It is respect.
What If He Keeps Asking After You Said You Hate Selfies?
I would stop trying to explain it better.
He understood.
He simply hoped repeated asking would eventually change your answer.
Say:
I already told you I do not like sending selfies. Please stop asking.
Clear.
If he does it again, you now know he is willing to ignore a very easy boundary.
You get to decide whether you want to continue talking to someone like that.
Are You Being Difficult by Refusing?
No.
You are allowed to dislike selfies.
Some people love taking pictures.
Some people would rather have dental work.
Neither personality is morally superior.
If sending pictures feels fun, send them.
If it feels like work, don’t.
The person you are dating does not need constant visual proof that you still possess a face.
What If You Feel Ugly in Selfies?
Then do not force yourself to send one every time he asks.
You might prefer photos other people take.
Or video calls.
Or simply seeing each other in person.
You can say:
I am honestly terrible at selfies. You will get a much better version of me in person.
Most normal people will survive.
And if someone loses interest because you would not provide daily photographic updates?
That probably was not the connection you were hoping for anyway.
What If Sending Pictures Feels Fun With Him?
Then enjoy it.
This article is not a campaign against selfies.
Picture exchanges can be cute.
He sends his coffee.
You send your terrible hair day.
He sends his dog.
You send your lunch.
Suddenly the two of you are sharing little pieces of your day.
That can create closeness.
The difference is that both people are enjoying it.
It feels spontaneous.
Not demanded.
Should You Ask Him for a Picture Back?
Absolutely, if you want one.
Your turn.
That is probably the easiest answer imaginable.
If he constantly asks you for selfies but mysteriously never wants to send one himself, you can also notice that.
Why should all the visual access go one direction?
Relationships generally feel better when interest is mutual.
What If He Refuses to Send You One?
Interesting.
Maybe he hates selfies too.
Fair.
But if he demands current pictures from you because he needs “verification” while refusing to provide the same reassurance?
I would ask about that.
You keep asking me for pictures, but you never send any. Why?
No accusation needed.
Let him explain.
What If You Sent a Picture and He Did Not Compliment You?
Please do not spiral.
You send a selfie.
He replies:
Nice.
You were hoping for:
You are the most beautiful woman who has ever interacted with a front facing camera.
Instead:
Cute.
Maybe he is not expressive.
Maybe he was busy.
Maybe he genuinely thought “cute” was a good response.
Do not send another picture trying to earn a better compliment.
Look at how he treats you overall.
What If He Does Not Respond at All?
Also annoying.
He asks:
Send me a selfie.
You overcome your hatred of selfies.
Find decent lighting.
Take eight.
Delete seven.
Send the survivor.
Nothing.
Excuse me?
You can tease him later:
You requested a picture and then disappeared. Terrible customer service.
If this happens constantly, stop putting effort into requests that receive no appreciation.
What If He Compliments Every Picture Too Much?
Maybe he genuinely thinks you are gorgeous.
Enjoy it.
But if every conversation becomes an enormous appearance festival, make sure there is more to the connection.
Does he like anything about you that cannot be photographed?
Your humor.
Opinions.
Ambition.
Kindness.
Weird obsession with documentaries about shipwrecks.
Whatever makes you you.
Being desired feels good.
Being known feels better.
Ideally, you eventually get both.
Do Guys Ask for Pictures Because They Miss You?
Sometimes.
Especially once you already have a connection.
If you have not seen each other for several days and he says:
Send me your face. I miss you.
Yes.
He probably misses seeing you.
That is sweet.
You do not need to ruin it by Googling fourteen possible psychological explanations.
Send the picture if you want.
Tell him you miss him too.
Dating occasionally provides easy moments.
Please take them when available.
Do Guys Ask for Selfies to See If You Like Them?
Sometimes the request itself can be a small test of interest.
Not necessarily consciously.
He asks:
Send me a picture.
If you happily send one, he may take that as a sign you feel comfortable with him.
Especially if you flirt while doing it.
But there are much better ways to determine whether someone likes you than testing their willingness to provide photographs.
If you like him, tell him through actual conversation and effort.
The Biggest Question Is Not Why He Asked
It is how the request makes you feel.
Do you smile when he asks?
Send one happily?
Enjoy the attention?
Great.
Or do you immediately feel annoyed?
Pressured?
Inspected?
Like you need to prove something?
Pay attention to that too.
Sometimes people become so focused on figuring out what someone else’s behavior means that they forget to ask whether they actually like the behavior.
You are allowed to have preferences.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does a guy ask for a picture of you?
He may find you attractive, want a current picture, be flirting, want to feel closer to you, or be checking that your online dating photos are accurate. The context around the request matters.
Why do guys ask for selfies?
Some guys simply enjoy seeing someone they are attracted to. Others may want reassurance that you look like your dating profile, want attention, or hope to start exchanging pictures.
Does a guy asking for a selfie mean he likes you?
It can show attraction or interest, but it does not automatically mean he wants a relationship. Look at whether he also talks to you, makes plans, and shows consistent effort.
Why does he ask for pictures when he already knows what I look like?
He may enjoy receiving new pictures because he likes seeing you, wants to feel connected, or enjoys the attention involved in exchanging photos.
Why does a guy ask for a selfie before meeting?
He may want to make sure your profile pictures are recent or verify that you are the person in the profile. You can offer a video call instead if you prefer.
Why does he ask for a current picture when my dating profile has photos?
Dating profile photos are selected in advance and may be older. A current selfie may reassure him that your profile accurately reflects what you look like now.
Why does a guy ask for a full body picture?
He probably wants a better idea of what your body looks like. You do not have to send additional pictures if you are uncomfortable, especially when your profile already includes clear photos.
Why does he keep asking me for selfies every day?
He may enjoy seeing you, like the attention, or use pictures as a way to feel connected. If the requests annoy you, tell him you do not want to send pictures constantly.
Why does he ask for pictures but never asks me out?
He may enjoy flirting and receiving attention without being motivated to date in person. If you want to meet, suggest a date and see whether he follows through.
Why does he only ask for pictures late at night?
He may be looking for a more flirtatious interaction. Pay attention to whether he also communicates with you and makes plans at other times.
What should I say when a guy asks for a selfie?
If you want to flirt, try “Miss my face already?” or “Only if you send one too.” If you do not want to send one, simply say “I am not really into sending selfies.”
What do I say when a guy says “send me a pic”?
You can say “What kind of picture?” “Your turn first,” “You can see me in person,” or simply send one if you are comfortable.
Is it rude to refuse to send a selfie?
No. You are never required to send someone a picture of yourself. A respectful person should accept your answer.
Is asking for pictures a red flag in online dating?
Not automatically. A polite request can be harmless. Repeated pressure, demands, anger, or ignoring your refusal are much more concerning.
What if he gets mad when I refuse to send pictures?
That reaction is more important than the original request. Someone who does not respect a simple boundary may not be someone you want to continue dating.
Should I send a selfie to someone I met on a dating app?
Only if you want to. If you prefer not to send additional pictures, you can suggest a short video call or wait until your first date.
If You Just Got the “Send Me a Pic” Text
Before you spend ten minutes trying to locate the perfect lighting, ask yourself one thing:
Do I actually want to send him a picture?
Yes?
Great.
Send it.
You do not need to analyze the request into the ground.
Maybe he likes you.
Maybe he misses your face.
Maybe he thinks you are gorgeous.
Enjoy that.
But if your immediate reaction was:
Ugh. Again?
You are allowed to say no.
And if you have already given him six profile pictures, three selfies, an Instagram account, and possibly visual documentation of every hairstyle you have had since Tuesday, you do not need to keep proving what you look like.
The most useful information may come after you decline.
A good response:
No worries.
An even better response:
Fine. Then I guess I will have to see you in person. Are you free Saturday?
Now we are talking.
A bad response:
Come on. Don’t be boring.
That tells you something too.
Because whether he asks for a picture is not nearly as important as whether he remembers there is an actual person on the other side of the camera.
And if what you really want is to date him?
Eventually, stop exchanging pictures and go see each other.
The live version is much more useful anyway.
