So you think you have found a guy you actually like but aren’t sure how to go about getting him to notice you? It is so rare in this world to find a guy worth actually pursuing so when you find one worth your time it may feel important for you to give off a good first impression to potentially see if there is more to your relationship with him.
If you are looking to try and meet a guy you think is cool, follow three important steps: Be nice, be honest, present your best self.
Be Nice to Guys
It may seem simple, but being nice can go a lot farther than you might think. There is no need to play coy or come off as hard to get. If a guy is actually worth having in your life he will like you for you without you needing to perform all these games to get his attention. Try and start a conversation with him to get to know him. Be open and friendly and not afraid to ask questions and answer them. Ask him about his family? His Interests? If you are looking to get out of the box you can ask him fun and quirky things like whether or not he believes in aliens. Your own enthusiasm is sexy! Being happy and nice are great things that everyone loves. If you want to make a good impression, just be calm and pleasant and don’t try too hard to be someone you aren’t.
Be Honest When Talking to Guys
Don’t be afraid to let him know what you want. Most guys like girls who know what they are looking for and not beating around the bush will save you your well-earned time as well. You don’t want to spend effort trying to get a guy that isn’t interested or is simply a player. Let him know that you think he’s cool and would like to get to know him better. Most people like validation and hearing that they are well liked. You don’t have to straight up say you want to date him, but hinting at your interest can go a long way especially for guys that are more on the oblivious side.
Your Best Self
There is no harm putting a little more effort into yourself than you usually would to make a good impression. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident, think about topics that you would like to talk about that you know well so you won’t be at a stalemate for what to say, and—simply put—meet him being your best self. Trying to be a little more friendly or putting effort into the conversation can make you come off as someone who actually cares and is willing to put forth effort into a relationship which nearly everyone can appreciate. Showing that you care enough to try can make him see you in a new light as he will recognize the efforts you have put in because you genuinely like him. This can leave a good impression as well as alert him to the fact that you like him if he sees you trying around him more than you normally would for other people.
Overall, there is no need to try too hard to make an impression. The last thing you want is to come off fake or build yourself a personality that isn’t really you. If you start a relationship on falsehoods, it isn’t going to last. However, this doesn’t mean you can’t make a good first impression! All you need to do is be nice so he sees you are actually a good and interesting person, be honest so as to start a healthy foundation for a relationship, and just try to be your best self around him so he may notice you more than he usually would. If he likes you back, it will happen. Don’t try to force anything as you wouldn’t want to pressure him into a relationship with you if he doesn’t feel the same way. That will only make things harder for the both of you down the line. Simply be respectful of him and make sure he is respectful of you in turn. Be nice, be honest, and be your best self and things should work out in no time at all.