Did you notice that your boyfriend or husband started ignoring you and shows minimum interest? Does it mean that he is not attracted to you or is that just a temporary phase? If you have been together for a long time, the initial attraction will slowly become weaker and that’s why it is important to try to continue surprising your partner and do everything to keep the relationship from becoming dull or boring.
Many couples break up because they are just bored with each other and in some cases, it can even lead to cheating. However, it doesn’t have to be this way.
The main reason why your husband or boyfriend ignores you is probably because relationship became predictable and they start to put more emphasis on other things such their work or hobby. It doesn’t mean that they don’t like you but their hobby or job allows them to escape their mundane life. They probably don’t even realize that you might feel ignored. Let’s look at some things you can do before everything spirals out of control:
Take a good care of yourself and try to be the best you can be
Working on yourself and trying to improve not only will make you look more attractive to your husband or boyfriend but it will also benefit you in the long-term by making you more confident.
Don’t be available all the time to your husband or boyfriend
If you are spending all the free time around your partner you both will become bored, try to get a new hobby, make new friends or join fitness classes. When your partner will be alone, he will have time to miss you. Having balance is important for any healthy relationship.
Plan activities that you both enjoy
Hiking, going to the beach, traveling are some of the examples of the things that will allow you to have fun with your boyfriend or husband.
Try to act unpredictable once in a while
Being always predictable is boring and if you want to spice things a little, surprise your husband or boyfriend. Send him a flirty test, buy a sexy dress that will drive him wild, act more flirty in public when you out. Get a sexy lingerie and wear it when he comes home. If you will try to spice things up, your partner will try to do something in return to surprise you as well.
What can you do if you tried everything but your partner continues to ignore you?
You have to decide for yourself if either your partner has a problem/stressed out or he is just not into you but doesn’t want to break up for one reason or another. Sometimes stress or depression may cause your partner to close up inside of himself and show minimum interest in the outside world, including you. If you suspect that this is the case, try to talk to your partner about the issue with blaming him. Arguing at this point will only make your partner more stressed out and depressed. If on another hand you suspect that your husband or boyfriend is not attracted to you anymore, you will have to try to spark the attraction following steps above or just have a serious talk with him about ending the relationship. One last thing you should remember is never to make an assumption on how your partner feels about the relationship without talking to him first.