How to Message Guys First? Online Dating Messages That Will Get Replies!

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In today’s society, it isn’t always the man who is pursuing. Sometimes gender roles can be reversed and actually work for the better when it is the man that is the one being pursued. It may seem hard, but messaging a guy first could actually be easier than waiting around for someone to talk to you first.

You know what you want, all you have to do is have the courage to reach out and get it for yourself. If you are looking to date someone and find a relationship, but aren’t liking any of the guys that are trying to talk to you, take the leap. If you want to try online dating and message the guy first, try commenting on their photos, comment on their interests, and don’t be afraid to be funny.

  1. Comment on Their Photos

Try saying something about their appearance you like. Tell them that you like the way they smile or the shirt that they are wearing. Try and see if there is something in their photos you connect with. Is there a dog? Is there a fandom you like? If there is, ask them about it! Ask them for their dog’s name, how long they have had, or other topics that could get them speaking. If there is a fandom ask about their favorite character or something of the like. If it looks like they are in a sport, talk about that. Just try to connect with them on something they are passionate about which will likely be represented through their photographs.

  1. Comment on Their Interest

Look at their bios and see if there if something you have in common. Ask them about the things they talk about in their bios whether it be music, hunting, or school. Anything on their profile is game to ask about and a good way to start a conversation. If they go to school, ask their major. Ask them if they like their professors? Ask them who their least favorite professor is or their lease favorite subject. Ask them what they would major in if money wasn’t an issue. If they work, ask them if they like their job. Ask them about past jobs. Ask them where they would like to work if they were given the choice to work anywhere. Ask them if they could change one thing about their job, what would they choose? Try to talk about something that is easy for them to put into the conversation as well as entertaining and new. You don’t want to just say hi and be done with it. Delve a little deeper into their interests.

  1. Don’t be Afraid to Be Funny

Make up something random when talking to guys. Give them a joke or a lame pick up line. They might actually find it endearing and different to be the one getting hit on instead of the other way around. Sometimes giving a random impromptu quiz like asking them whether they like marvel or DC or asking them if they prefer raccoons over ducks is something that could make you stand apart from the other people talking to them. Giving them a funny line about how they must be from Tennessee because they are the “only ten you see” can catch them off guard and make them think about going out with you. Even if it is cheesy, it will be different and likely they will find it endearing and make you seem worth looking into. Guys like to see someone who is confident and knows what they want. If you buck up the courage and take a shot at something humorous or random it could work out in your favor

Overall, don’t be afraid to message a guy. You might end up with the significant other of your dreams because you took the chance so many people look over because they expect the male to pursue them first. If you simply comment on their photos, comment on their interests, and try to be creative in your messaging, you will get a lot more responses than you would think. Before you know it, you will have all kinds of dates and not enough time to deal with them all. Don’t conform to gender roles. Step out of the box and message the guys you like first and reap the benefits of being confident and different.

Finally chose the right place to meet guys. If you are looking for a long term relationship skip Tinder or Bumble and go with Match.com instead. You might even try approaching guys on the street, gym or mall but based on the statistics more and more people find their significant other online. View pics for free now on Match.com, the #1 dating site!

Did YOU know?

1) Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men found a relationship at a bar or club

2) 38% of singles are using online dating

3) One in six marriages now begin online

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