Girlfriends work ten times harder than the boyfriends do in most relationships. We stress over it every second of the day, we worry about our looks like our hair, makeup, or outfit so our boyfriend will think we’re cute. We spend hours thinking about how to make our boyfriend happy if we feel like we’ve upset him in some way. Girlfriends do this all while acting like nothing is wrong and looking fabulous. We deserve a little bit of praise, right? Like, maybe a little gift every now and then in appreciation for all that girlfriends do. It isn’t too much to ask for.
Here are three ways to get your boyfriend to buy you gifts:
- Use Your Puppy Eyes.
A girlfriend’s most natural way to get what she really wants is all through her eyes. Most girlfriends have the most attention-catching eyes and the saddest looking puppy eyes when they really want to. This is why boyfriends are just putty in our hands if we ever decide to use the puppy eyes defense. He won’t buy you dinner tonight because he doesn’t feel like it? Puppy eye it. He won’t cuddle with you after you’ve had a long day because he’s too tired? Puppy eye it. And, most important of all, he won’t buy you gifts for being the best girlfriend ever? Puppy eye it. It’s simple, really, just put on your best sad eyes and give him a begging look and eventually he will catch on and give into what you want.
- Complain About Financial Issues.
Did YOU know?
1) Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men found a relationship at a bar or club
2) 38% of singles are using online dating
3) One in six marriages now begin online
Through hearing your constant complaints about not being able to afford going out to eat, buying the clothes you love, or even paying bills, most boyfriends will feel sympathetic and offer to purchase something for you in lieu of you doing it yourself. Use this to your advantage, as if your boyfriend is a gentleman and worries about your finances, that can be one of the easiest ways to ask for him to buy you thinks you want. He’ll think you cannot afford it, and you’ll be getting nice gifts from your boyfriend. Every now and then complain that you had to pay a bill past due because your paycheck was too small or complain that because you had to use your money for something else, you were unable to get that pair of beautiful earrings you saw at the store last week. Eventually, your boyfriend will give in and purchase these gifts for you and you won’t need to complain about your finances anymore.
- Use Your Wild Sexuality.
Now I’m not usually one to be all right with women sexually exploiting themselves for any reason, but sometimes girlfriends should sexually exploit themselves to their boyfriends in order to get what they want. The use of sexually controlling them will have them on their knees in front of you. The promises of sexual stimulation if a gift is bought and given to you is not something to be ashamed of. Many men crave a woman’s sexuality, so if your boyfriend craves it make him work for it. Have him buy you that Michael Kor’s bag you’ve had your eye on at the mall or make him buy you something as simple as a bouquet of flowers out of nowhere in order for him to deserve your sexuality and possible means of stimulation. The funny thing is, everyone believes that a man has more sexual energy than a woman does – this is entirely false. So use your sexual energy and attractive ways to make your boyfriend buy you gifts upon gifts so you can keep giving him yourself sexually. It’d be different if this was for a stranger or for the sole purpose of gaining material items from your boyfriend, but if you love the man – but also believe you deserve a treat every now and then – use sexuality to get your way!
Have you ever used any of these tips on how to get your boyfriend to buy you some extraordinary gifts? Well, maybe its time that you did because if you’re a girlfriend that works hard just to make her boyfriend love her and be happy in the relationship – then you deserve to get some gifts as praise and thanks for all that you have done! Don’t think of it as using your boyfriend for material items and only wanting him for his money, because you’d still date him even if his gifts bought were cheap because it is the thought that counts at the end – but buying some lavish, expensive gifts won’t hurt either.