If you ever went to college you probably met quite a few hot teachers, professors or teacher assistants. You probably also fantasized about what would it be to date him or her. It is alright to fantasize about this but if you are serious about it, you should consider a few things.
How to stay out of trouble?
Make sure you are legally allowed to date them (each state and country have different regulations). Ensure that they are single because the last thing you want to do is to ruin someone’s marriage or relationship. Lastly, think whether this relationship will be detrimental to your studying and relationships with people you know such your friends or your parents. If on the other hand you are not even attending the lectures of the teacher you like and you are old enough, you shouldn’t have issues dating him or her.
Did YOU know?
1) Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men found a relationship at a bar or club
2) 38% of singles are using online dating
3) One in six marriages now begin online
How to seduce your teacher or professor?
The first step in seducing you teacher or professor is to make sure they notice you in class. Keep gaze extra-long whenever talking to them and try to be a little flirty without making them feel uncomfortable. The main fear that will stop your teacher assistant or teacher from going out with you is what other students and faculty will find out about and their career might be in danger. To make it easy for them try to talk and flirt with your teacher or professor only after class or during tutorials, this is the time when they will be more relaxed and outgoing. Start slowly by asking if you can get some help after class and if they agree to meet up, move slowly and start asking more personal questions to find out about their relationship status and things they enjoy doing. Also, share more personal info about yourself to build an emotional bond.
Ask him out on a date
The best way to ask your teacher or professor out is to make it look like it wasn’t planned. Tell them that you are going to buy coffee or lunch for them to payback for all the time they spent teaching you after class. Alternatively, you can say that you have some tickets left for the event but no one wants to go and you wonder if he or she would join. When you do go out, try to be slow with your advances, your teacher assistant or teacher will have to overcome a few mental barriers that prevent him or her to see you as a potential intimate partner and not just another student that takes their class.
After you are officially going out, it is important to keep the relationship and school separately or otherwise, your teacher or professor might get scared that they might lose a job because of you two going out. Ensure no one from your class knows about your relationship. Obviously, it is important to keep in mind the age gap between you two. If it is less than 10 years, you shouldn’t worry much and after you stopped taking classes from that person or you finished your studies, there is nothing wrong with letting everyone know that you two are dating!