Now, this may shock quite a number of you, but most girls do not appreciate men trying to impress them with inappropriate statements about their bodies or pornographic photographs of their penises. It just doesn’t happen. It is not realistic to expect a girl to want to go out with you over some words about her body being “hot” or through showing her a disgusting picture of your private area probably in dirty boxer shorts. Men need to learn how to approach a woman through social media in the correct manner in order to get a better response than “ew” or “not interested.”
Here are four ways to chat with a girl and impress her on Facebook, Snapchat, or WhatsApp:
- Begin Your Conversations Right.
Trying to begin a conversation with a girl over messages on Facebook, pictures on Snapchats or texts through WhatsApp can be challenging, as you have to say the right thing immediately. It’s like your first impression to this girl, and I promise you that your first impression should not include a selfie, dick pic, or catcalling words. Trying something like commenting appropriately on her Facebook posts and actually being interested in the life she is presenting through her social media could be your way in. On Snapchat, starting a streak of funny faces using the various amounts of filters provided could be your way of starting a decent conversation with a girl you like. As for WhatsApp, sending her a simple message like “hi” or “hello beautiful” will not cut it. Try to make a conversation asking how she’s doing and remember to respond!
- Don’t Ruin The Moment.
No matter what you may think, what you may have experienced in the past, or what you might hope for – women do not want to see your genitals before the first date. So, with that logic, do not send nudes or anything of the like to the girl you are trying to talk to, especially if she does not seem very interested in pursuing any type of relationship with you. If you two are having a nice conversation, do not ruin it by asking if she is horny, or anything sexual about her. This will ruin the moment as well as ruin your chances of ever getting to date her. That’s for certain.
- Be Funny!
Humor is the key to most women’s hearts. For me, personally, I find men that can tell a joke or two and keep me laughing in the relationship the best kind there are. If you are not funny, try. Anything but being specifically bland and boring can improve your chances of being able to date whatever girl you are trying to chat with. If you’re trying to talk to her through Facebook, crack some jokes through sending her some funny photographs, “memes,” or funny pictures from your Facebook photograph list. If you’re trying to impress a girl on Snapchat, send her hilarious photographs of you trying many of the filters offered to you through the app. This will surely make her laugh and make her more inclined to respond. If you’re trying to impress your possible girlfriend through WhatsApp, send her funny jokes you found online and ask her to send some your way. This allows for an innocent exchange of laughs and will likely have the both of you like each other even more.
- Be a Gentleman.
I cannot stress this enough, but please be civil in conversations with girls online. Do not give attitude if she expresses that she is upset about something that you may think is silly or a waste of time. Do not become angry with her if she takes longer than you wanted to reply. Do not make fun of her for certain aspects of her life. These are all things that will ruin your chances with the girl as well as many more to come. Instead, be a gentleman. If the girl you are talking to on Facebook, Snapchat, or WhatsApp says that she is upset over something that one of her friends said to her. Show your remorse and listen to what she is going to say. Try to make her happy. If the girl is at work all day and cannot respond to your messages or Snapchats until late at night, be calm and civil and understanding. It is not a big deal. And, finally, if the girl does certain activities or clubs in her life, support her endeavors and be proud of her instead of putting her down. Doing all of this could increase the chances of her falling for you.
Trying these methods of chatting with a girl through various social media platforms like Facebook, Snapchat, or WhatsApp could help you actually start a meaningful relationship with the girl. The truth of the matter is that girls are not interested by immediate talk about your body, her body, or your penis. They are interested in conversations where you, the man, are also interested in having fun – perhaps deep – messages back and forth. I promise that if you do any of the tips listed above, you have a better chance with getting a girlfriend than you would without them.