Let’s take a look at six Snapchat dating tips that will skyrocket your online dating success. Snapchat can be a useful tool in gaining a girl’s attention but don’t be foolish in thinking that every Snap you take should be sent to a girl whose interest you’re trying to win.
There’s a delicate dance involved when it comes to choosing the appropriate Snaps to send her. Being mindful of this fact will go a long way in acquiring the desired effect you hope to have when sending those short live feeds. Here are some useful tips on how to talk to girls on Snapchat.
- Goofy is Sometimes Better than Sexy
While you may think that sending a girl a Snap that shows off how sexy you are, whether it be a video of you and your tanned muscles while lying on a beach somewhere or maybe a short clip of you looking fine in your best Friday night attire, that probably isn’t the best way to flirt with her. Instead, send goofy clips, maybe of you making a silly face or dancing to music. The idea is to get her smiling and laughing when she watches your Snap.
Also, salacious Snaps or pictures are most definitely not the way to go. Apart from the fact that she could screenshot anything you send her, allowing her to keep it for her records and possibly share with others, girls who are looking to date a man aren’t falling for guys who send nude clips. Keep the content fun and lighthearted, she’ll appreciate your approach.
2. Make Use of the Caption
Your video is obviously the focal point but don’t underestimate the importance of a well thought out caption to accompany the video. You want to include something that will initiate a conversation. The more comfortable you make her feel about contacting you, the more interested she will be in continuing the flirting through text messages, phone calls, or even dates.
3. Keep the Snaps Short
The longer a Snap is, the more likely she is to find some annoying fault with it. Try to keep the clip shorter than 10 seconds or so. There’s plenty of flirting that can be accomplished in a short time frame, so don’t overdo it. Plus, your goal is to spark a reaction that transverses to a conversation.
Also, keep your Snaps to a minimal. The same way that long clips can become annoying; sending her too many Snaps can have the same effect. It also gives off a hint of insecurity, like you have to have her attention all the time, and if there’s one thing that turns a girl off, it’s an insecure guy. By sending fewer Snaps it builds anticipation. She’ll be anxious to receive that next clip or picture that has her giggling with butterflies.
4. Show Interest in Their Story
It shouldn’t be a surprise to know that taking an interest in their story is a good way to show how serious you are in pursuing her. Comment on her pictures; maybe even send her a Snap that pertains specifically to a photo she posted.
Also, remember to put her name on your Snapchat. She will be flattered to know that you thought it meaningful to include her name on your Snapchat.
5. Show You Have a Social Life
Post Snaps with friends of the fun things you guys do to show you have a healthy social life. This will have a twofold effect. First, it will build a desire within her to be a part of those fun times with your friends. She’ll almost be envious in a way and want to join you in the social events you attend.
Second, Snaps of your social life will show that you have a life outside of her. Girls want to be desired, but they don’t want a man who’s obsessed. If you keep the Snaps to a minimal and sprinkle in some of you with friends, her level of intrigue will rise dramatically.
6. Be Unique
It can’t be overstated how much of an effect unique Snaps have on a girl. Drunk Snaps and selfies don’t pique their interest. Be creative with what you send her. If you’re going to send her Snaps of food, maybe think about sending the process of making a delectable meal instead of the end product, which would probably be more appropriately tagged on Pinterest. Make good use of the few Snaps you should be sending instead of sending every mundane thought, action, or object that pops into your mind. Also, make use of the emojis. They are a great way to be flirty and fun at the same time.
Snapchat offers so many ways to be cute and flirtatious, so why not take advantage of them. Stay away from selfie and nude pictures and keep your Snaps short, but most of all, be creative, goofy, fun, and engaged and you’ll be sure to win that special girl’s attention.